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[quote]Salaamu Alaikom
I think in many cases we have to look at the practise of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) in order to be able to implement Shariah in our lifes. As the example of hitting the wife. First we have to look what Quran really say. Admonish them first, then refuse to share their beds, then beat them. Now, before you come to this last stage, dont you think that the problem most of the times already has been solved? Since there is two stages before that? And if we look at what the scholars say than this is for religious disobeidiance. And then also if we come to this last stage of beating. What are we allowed to do and what are we NOT allowed to do. How did Prophet Muhammad practise this?
Look what Shariah say about beating. And also according to Shariah if a woman fears cruelty and mistreatment from her husband she has the right to demand Talaq Khul. So it is not just to beat. A problem is, like here in sweden, that many husbands who are beating their wifes or punish them in other ways may not themselfes be the best examples. And I think THIS is the first we as men have to ask ourselfes before we even think about punishing our wifes:
What kind of example for Deen am I to my wife?
Why is she doing this? Is is something that I cause?
Sorry for the long post[/quote]

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