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[quote][blue]nice to see you back uncle hope u r well [8D]sala'm[/blue]

first of all plz take this out of mind that you, me or anyone else is here to investigate eachother's faiths or to make eachother agree with what we believe is right. this is not a believer's way of sharing good. We are not out here to convert eachother.
Our tolerance and trust level should be so high that we can sit together, discuss various issues, conflict and still be able to talk next time.
On these very forums there have been &quot;Battles&quot; because members have not been able to tolerate eachother. some of our poor moderators had to leave because of all this mess.

i see a lot of young people in our gynaecological sexual health clinical sessions. masturbation is a norm in this society and young and older people mention if they have problems associated with it;
i tell our muslim young enquirers that this is something which is bound to effect their inner purification, rather a believer is encouraged to remain in the state of ablution(wudu) as and wen possible~
the best way of satisfying one's sexual desires in a physically and spiritually as well as mentally healthy manner is by the way that the prophets have taught us i.e. within nikah /marriage contract;untill then to remain engaged in the religious rituals like fast and prayers, charity, etc and healthy activities like sports, community welfare work and so on; i give them all the religious and medical info possible and then leave it to them to use their brains and decide.
  after that i do not at all wish to be out there with a &quot;danda/stick&quot; in my hand making sure everybody tells me what they believe is a sin or not(as you are doing now [}:)] ) or to make sure that they do exactly what i have told them to. we can't and should not be doing this even to our own children. suppression never gives a chance to grow.
the other day as me and my husband were doing some gardening, he picked a plank from the top of the grass and said something very wise; &quot;see the difference in the grass where there has been suppression and where it was left to grow freely&quot; ; the area suppressed with the plank was rotten and dry as opposed to the rest of the fresh and green grass.
so let people breath; give ur opinion freely but don't &quot;lath lay kay peechay hee par jain&quot; untill you can read their minds, hearts, souls and everything that whether they finally agreed with u or not.
it will not be healthy and beneficial for yourself or others.

plz continue to send your very informative posts.

[green]sala'm [/green] [8)][/quote]

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