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[quote]Salams, Abizain, I have already given my responses in this matter, in light of the Quran and the sunnah of the Prophet that domestic abuse and violence is not permitted in Islam under any circumstances. By posting the above evidence I have proved to you that: 1. The prophet pbuh NEVER beat or encouraged the beating, or the abuse of any woman, (child or servant). 2. The hadiths of the prophet are clear about treating women kindly and forbiding men from abusing and beating their wives. 3. Most importantly is the clear evidence in the Quran that Allah swt has forbidden abuse and beating in these verses, where He has instructed to treat women with equity and kindness and not to be harsh or abuse them in any manner, whether physical, mental or emotional. See the Quran: 2:231 Either retain them in kindness or release them in kindness. DO NOT retain them in order to injure (or hurt) them; or to take undue advantage; if any one does that he has WRONGED his own soul. DO NOT treat Allah's Signs as a jest, but solemnly rehearse Allah's favours on you, and the fact that He sent down to you the Book and Wisdom, for your instruction. And fear Allah, and know that Allah is well acquainted with all things. See also the Qur'an 4:19 O ye who believe! ye are FORBIDDEN to inherit women against their will. NOR should ye treat them with harshness that ye may take away part of the dower ye have given them except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of KINDNESS and EQUITY. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good. 4. We know the there are several meanings of the word 'daraba' which also means to separate. The Quran can not contradict itself and according to the law of the Quran, we should take the best meaning of the true message of the Quran and the prophet's message: "Those who listen to the Word (the Quran) and follow the best meaning in it: those are the ones whom Allah has guided and those are the one's endowed with understanding." - Quran 39:18 5. Finally Allah swt says in the Quran 4:59 that if we disagree "O you who believe! Obey Allah, and obey the Messenger, and those charged with authority among you. If you differ in anything among yourselves, refer it to Allah and His Messenger, if you do believe in Allah and the Last Day: That is best, and most suitable. It is clear and evident from the above verses that Allah forbids the abuse of women and it is also obvious and clear that the Messenger never beat his wives and forbade men from such abuse from various authentic hadiths. "DO NOT beat the female servants of Allah." (Abu Dawud) "Among the Muslims, the most perfect as regards his faith is the one whose character is most excellent, and the best among you are those who treat their wives WELL." (At-Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud). Prophet Muhammad said: "Only an honorable man treat women with honor and integrity. And only a mean, deceitful and dishonest man humiliates and insults women." Referring to physical abuse, he added: "Never hit your wives, they are your partners and sincere helpers." He exemplified this by never, ever, hitting a women or child. The Prophet guaranteed protection of the life, honor, and property of women. “I went to the apostle of Allah (pbuh) and asked him: ‘What do you say [command] about our wives?’ He replied: ‘Give them the same food you have for yourself, and clothe them with the same clothes you clothe yourself, and DON NOT beat them, and DO NOT revile them.’” (Reported by Abu-Dawud.) Furthermore, the Prophet said: “It is not lawful for a Muslim to scare his fellow Muslim.” (Reported by Ahmad & Abu Dawud). In the Quran 65:6 Allah swt says: "Do not annoy women as to make their lives miserable." Hadith Qudsi: "O My slaves, I have forbidden myself oppression and I have made it between you forbidden, so do not oppress one another." Muslim And all cruelty is forbidden. Allah's Apostle said, "Help your brother, whether he is an oppressor or he is an oppressed one." People asked, "O Allah's Apostle! It is all right to help him if he is oppressed, but how should we help him if he is an oppressor?" The Prophet said, "By PREVENTING him from oppressing others." The Muslim woman has many rights in Islam, first as an adult human being, then equal rights as a Muslim, like yourself, as well other rights as a daughter, mother and wife. She also has the full right to be protected from all her oppressors: "And why should you not fight in the cause of God and on behalf of those, who being weak, are ill-treated and oppressed, men, women and children whose cry is, 'Our Lord! Rescue us from these oppressors, and raise for us, from You, one who will protect and help.'" (Qur'an 4:75) Marriage in Islam is about love, peace and harmony, it is not about creating hatred, abuse and violence (persecution, oppression, fitna and fasad). Quran 30:21 And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may live [dwell] in tranquility with them, and He has put LOVE and MERCY between you; verily, in that are signs for people who REFLECT. _____________________________________[/quote]
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