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[quote][quote]sister javeria1==> what u said in particular scenario, [b]is perfectly true[/b], [b]but[/b] I want to ask [b]what[/b] if there is [b]different scenario::[/b] [b]1)[/b] what if surrounding all males would be muslim??? [b]2)[/b] how important IT IS that [b]males themselves are also ORDERED BY ALLAH NOT to stare[/b] at woman or watch them in bad way??? 3) what u say of a woman who is having [b]decent dressing [/b] (not transparent and tight) [b]but not [/b] wearing hijab and niqab?? 4) The people who are against hijab (head covering) and niqab (face covering also with full burqa) [b]are not SUPPORTER[/b] of tight, tranparent or exotic or provocative dressing. what they say: that putting a woman behind burqa and face covering , you are [b]projecting[/b]that a woman is only an [b]object[/b] of exploiting males' inner dirty emotion???? so that [b]a little glimpse of her face or herself[/b] , would cause big thrill in males' mind??? you consider a female in this manner [b]a commodity [/b] who cannot do anything [b]except[/b] creating erotic emotion, so let her be there at home with her husband where such quality is required??? please comment.... these are not my doubts....these are the objections of western women which may misguide our young girls and they start to think in this way. keep in mind!! i am not talking about the [b]erotic, almost tranparent or bodily tight dress[/b]....i am talking the [b]very decent and proper dress ...[/b]..but [b]without head and face cover and without burqa[/b]( like the black coloured abaya).. thanks....[/quote] If all the males are Muslim, its still important to cover. The majority of the Hellfire will be women. Because their disobedience to Allah and the disobedience to their husbands. When we are covered you cant lead a man to temptation because he see's nothing. Even when we speak to men we're supposed to speak in a sturn, straight forward tone. We shouldnt have softness in our voice because that could also lead a man to fantasizing or giving him the wrong idea that you want to be talked to. Even though you may not see it in that way but if speak in a soft manner, they may take as seduction. Men period have the same desires and 1 of the most biggest desires a man have (as well as some females) is sex or jus a intimate partner. Its important men also lower his gaze and protect his private parts. As well as a women is led to temptation its the same with a man. Fearing your Lord and the punishment in the Hereafter should be sufficent enough. We all fall short sometimes but the best of the people are those who repent. But the same reason a man should lower his gaze is the same reason why a women should do tha same. Not to lead each other into temptation, protect yourself from the fire, and its pleasing your Lord and your husband. Hamdulilah if a women has a over garb. But she should cover her hair all the time. If her hair is dressed in a fancy way that might attract a man. He might like tha way her hair is fixed. If he doesnt fear Allah enough a muslim man would probably go for a sis that doesnt fully cover. Meanwhile a true believing man and Fearful of his Lord he would go for a women who also fears her Lord and is obedient. So say if there is a women who doesnt fully cover and she see a man she wants to have a sit down with for marriage. The mans he wants to marry fears Allah. They go and have the sit down and her hair is not covered he would most likely deny her or probably ask you do you wear hijab or niqab. You know my opinion really doesnt matter concerning this but i think if a women is not married she doesnt have to where a niqab... jus to show her availability. But if a women is married i think she should wear a niqab to only conceal her identity to tha public and reveal it to her islamic sisters, family, and husband. But like i said my opinion really doesnt matter. Im not Allah and Im not the Sharia law. I dont set Islamic rules. And i dont want the punishment in the grave. I think its good for a women to wear the whole face screen or the burqa because she fears that she may lead a man to temptation. Hamdulilah! Thats a good thing. It doesnt matter what kind of interpretation somebody has about women wearing the hijab, niqab, or burqa, islamic women should concentrate on pleasing Allah and pleasing their husbands. Because she doesnt want to attract the wrong man, especially if she's not covered. If Allah wills he will punish you in this world and in the Hereafter... Women are 1 of the men biggest temptation in the Dunya(worldly life) This is why they are ordered to have up to 4 wives, IF they can afford them and if he can treat them equally. Think about this... If a women is always covered from head to toe whether she is with her husband or not, if a man looks in her direction happens to notice her, he cant fornicate with her because he has nothing to fulfil his polluted ideas. He cant even see the shape of her body, the way her eyes look, lips, butt, legs, nothing! So what are the chances he will try to fornicate? She's guarding herself from this so she wont be a victum or a suspect. The only way a man would approach her is if the Shaitan his companion and does nothing but obey the Shaitans whisper. But on the other hand tha man probably wont even notice her. I hope I clearified everything?![/quote]
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