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[quote][quote]  In this day and age this is not how it is, more and more women are at work along with their husbands the most common reason being economics, the salary of the husband is not enough to support a household expenditure. [/quote]

Did you ever wonder why?  You go back 50-70 years, and the average salary of a man was enough to support his wife and kids.  Now it is not...  Let me tell you, what changed was the propensity for women to go out to work.

See, the banker and builder etc saw the opportunity.  They saw that as there were now two earners, there was more money they could extract from people.  So the price of life increased.

On top of this, the wages for men reduced due to the increased availability of labour.

So what happened?  Women had the choice not to work in the past.  Their stupid feminism and alleged liberation (from what), has all but removed this option from them.

I want to ask you...  How brainwashed must you to be, especially as a Muslim, to spend most of your day working for someone, away from the knowledge and practice of your deen... WHEN YOU DONT HAVE TO?

You see, women were told that they could and should compete with men, that they were merely slaves if they stayed at home.  That they were inferior if they did so.  Women have swallowed this, hook, line and sinker.

Now lets expand a little bit.  What happened once women felt the urge to waste their life at work?  Kids became neglected and were raised by strangers.  This has a psychological effect upon kids, a negative one.

What happened to the husband - wife dynamic?  Well now women have decided they do not owe their husbands obedience, which Allah has commanded of them, they have decided to be confrontational at home, because they think they do not need the husband.  This has helped to raise the divorce rate dramatically.

You may say why should I obey my husband...  Because Allah Commanded it and specified the family design to psychologically facilitate that (husband working, wife home etc).

But note, women have no problem obeying their boss at work.  Because society tells them that is ok.  And because they are paid.  But they will scream unfairness obeying their husband, as Allah commands them.

Lets compare, the duty of the husband is to protect and seek the best for his wife.  To love and care for her.  Women now think &quot;I am not obeying him and who does he think he is&quot;.

Whereas at work, for a boss (usually a man), who does not care if you are alive or dead, if you are happy or sad as long as it does not affect profit... well women have no problem being nice and obedient...  Money and brainwashing sure are amazing.

Anyway that is it at the moment.  safimera, I will respond to your points next time I am online insha'Allah.  I have come across them many times before, and they are easy to answer.

salaam[/quote]

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