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[quote]my brother Marwan!!!I did not know that u have such a nice heart..... as u said: [quote] Lets compare, the duty of the husband is to protect and seek the best for his wife. To love and care for her [/quote] if all husbands would be like you who also talk about love and care for wives....then there would not be any problem .............. but in reality , majority of males not think like you.....they talk about authority and obeying...but not love and care for wife...... now I understood why u r so in favour of putting wife obeying her husband........ when u would feel reponsibility for bread, cloth and shelter for your wife.....when you are protector of her from outside evil...when u do not consider your authority from GOD over her as a superiority complex, instead u consider this authority as a great responsibility.....when u treat your wife with love and care.....when u understand her limits, desires and emotions...then why your wife would not obey you?????????..why anybody's wife would not obey then????? but my brother outside your world, majority of husbands consider their wives...somebody who is servant to them....they are not following what you mentioned above.... it is my experience that u (husband) start first....you start treat her with love and care....then she would love to obey you to her last extent...... Our beloved Prophet (pbuh)'s married life gave us same message....... so I agree with you that if husband is like you (who cares for her bread, cloths and shelter, consider his authority over her as a responsibility rather than a superiority complex and treat her with love and care).....then a wife must obey him..... otherwise she has full right NOT to obey him..... regarding your version to keep women inside house.....and NOT to make them lady doctors, teachers or police officers.....it needs another discusson.....i will come to this topic after 3 or 4 days ....as I am travelling tonight... a very long flight....... May God make all husbands like your thinking (who care for her bread, cloths and shelter, consider his authority over her as a responsibility rather than a superiority complex and treat her with love and care).. God knows better......[/quote]
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