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[quote]Well in some cases you are right. In our culture women are not expected to have an opinion so if a woman gives her opinion by saying 'but my husband thinks such and such'  she is saying what she wants to say without saying I think such and such.... this woman is exceptable  but give your opinion as &quot;i think so and so&quot;....  is a woman who is thought to be a dominant wife. It is our perception of how we think of a woman should be. 
                     When independent thought is not encouraged in a woman then she learns to maneuver a woman is born with the same capability as a man to think, to learn and to analyse it is our surrounding our up bringing which molds us into who  we are.
                 Women can be extremely dominant as wives without society thinking  her so and be called dominating but not actually being so.  Relationships work only if  both the husband and wife can fulfill each other's expectation, some couples have clearly divided roles where husband's work, business, career is not a woman's  domain and the wives don't know and are fine with it the house and it's set up is the wife's area the husband doesn't know and doesn't want to know either. They are happy and have no issues. some couples like it different the wife is aware of her husband's career gives her suggestions, where applicable the husband likes it and same is the case of the house where a husband is aware gives suggestions and the wife likes that involvement. the problem occurs when there is incompatibility and different roles are expected from both the partners.[/quote]

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