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[quote]Dear Zeenaeem You have again misunderstood me. I said that the verse does not deal with the permission or denial of marriage in general circumstances ( normal condition). You have given a detailed description of the verse and I was also talking in respect of the same background. I am totally unable to understand that how u can obtain an order of marriage from the verse 4:3. There it is written that : "And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphangirls, then marry (other) women of your choice" Its clearly written that "if u fear" then u can marry more than once. Now HOW THIS VERSE ORDERS OR EVEN GIVES PERMISSION FOR MORE THAN ONE MARRIAGES, i am totally unable to understand that. On the other hand, I am not saying that it stops someone from marrying , once or more. It was a normal routine in Arabs that they marry more than once, even they still do the same. The Almighty ALLAH urges people that u already marry more than once So it would be better that if u fear that u cannot take good care of the orphans, u "can" marry to their mother. Its is crystal clear that if u fear that ........ , THEN MARRY OTHER WOMEN OF YOUR CHOICE. Its very simple, written in IF statement, which clearly means that you can marry if u have some fear/doubts about dealing with orphans justly. There is no general permission even, rather than an order. When i say that it does not deal with the permission or denial of marriages, that is in normal circumstances. In that special circumstance it urges ppl to marry, even then it does not orders & even it is not a privelage that one can marry if he wants to without fulfilling the requirements of the marriage. The very next verse states : 004.004 And give the women (on marriage) their dower as a free gift; but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, Take it and enjoy it with right good cheer. This verse clearly states then it is not a privelage that for orphans you marry someone, even if u marry for the orphans, even then u have to give the women their dower. So, even if in this case it is not a privelage, then how can u say that in normal circumstances it is allowed. Now, I doesn't means that it is forbidden but it is left on the society and choice of people, they can if they want to and if they can fulfill all the requirements. Your Quote ========== This verse does deal with the permission of marriage and limits the number of wives one can have. What if anyone can deal justly with the orphans and desires to marry more than one ? He can, of course. Let us analyze the situation : Answer ====== This verse gives you permission in a special case, i.e. to deal justly with the orphans. In normal circumstances., The Holy Qura'n neither stops u from marrying nor orders anyone to marry. If a person can marry or not, without this special case, u said he can marry, i too agree with u but still He CAN, its not obligatory. Your Quote ========== If anyone fears of committing injustice with orphan, then he is free to marry other women of his choice, up to 4. Here again, Allah did not say not to marry, but He says, you can marry. Answer ====== I am also saying the same, ALLAH says u can marry, and what is the meaning of "CAN", it means that "if u want to" ALLAH doesn't say that U HAVE TO MARRY. Not even at a single place in the Holy Qur'an. Your Quote ========== Hence, the verse 4:3 contains the command to marry, either orphans if you could do justice, or other women if you fear that you cannot make justice between orphan’s properties. Answer ====== I am sorry to say but I could not see any command here. It is just giving an option that its better. Be very clear about my words, "Its Better" in comparison that u try to take care of orphans but its natural that if there is a dispute between ur own child and the orphan a person will always take side of your own child. So thats y ALLAH said that its BETTER that u marry with their mother and that is also only if u fear that u will not be able to deal with them justly Your Quote ========== You agreed that you couldn’t show a verse commanding us to remain unmarried. Whereas there are plenty of verses available in support of marriage, urging, stressing and commanding. Hence, marriage falls under Fardh and Sunnah. Answer ====== There are verses in support of marriage, urging & stressing and I also said that its better but there is NO SINGLE VERSE EVEN which commands you to marry, atleast I haven't seen any. If there is any then please do let me know. Please only the verse where a command is given because I do agree about the verses which are in support of marriage and it will be only waste of ur efforts and time if you again quote such verses. About the Hadith, u said under normal condition, so what are abnormal condition, only medical fitness is enough for Normal condition. I don't think so. If a person cannot fulfill his duties which are posed onto him even then that is not a normal case. Peace & Smiles Atif.[/quote]
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