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[quote]Dear Atifrafi Thanks for your prompt attention. Let me clarify you the verse quoted - 57:27. You have quoted a different translation where you have said within brackets to mean that as if Allah has recommended Monasticism, which is not at all correct but goes against the principle of Allah Who stated that “We did not prescribe for them..” Nor Monasticism was prescribed to anyone else in this world, prior to Eisa (peace be upon him). Hence, the word yet (meaning up till now, hitherto, however, nevertheless, nonetheless etc.) is not suitable translation because the Arabic world “Fa” suffixing “aathainallazeena aamanoo” only suggest a reward for the action they have done – that is those who “Believed”. Hence “so We gave those among…” is correct. Then, let us see they Believed what ? They believed in Allah, they believed in Jesus, they believe in all that Allah has ordained. Since Monasticism was not ordained, they did not believe. Such people are the Fasiqun, rebellious, disobedient to Allah. When Allah has not prescribed Monasticism, and it was invented, that is how the Christians also assumed that Allah will bestow His rewards due to their action. In the same line of such Fasiqun, you are also translating the verse saying Allah bestowed his reward on the inventors of Monasticism?!! ASTAGFIRULLAH. Allah says He did not prescribe. You are saying Allah bestowed reward on such people !! The phrase you have quoted “otherwise it should be that "WE BESTOWED ONLY THOSE WHO DID NOT PARTICIPATE IN MONASTICISM". – is included in the phrase “fa aathainallazeena aamanoo (So we gave those who believed). Your quote: “I totally agree with u that it CAN save but do remember that it "CAN" save. There is no hard and fast rule that a married person will not indulge in any sin and on the other hand a person who is NOT married there is again no hard and fast rule that He/She WILL INDULGE IN SINS. Unquote I did not say nor anyone said that a married person indulges in sins. If you talk about ordinary sins of a married person, the full mankind is sinning. When you talk about the sin “Adultery” the illegal sexual intercourse, yes, marriage is a way to be out of such a grave sin. Of course, there is a hard and fast rule in Islam for the married persons as well as for the unmarried persons NOT to indulge in illegal sexual intercourse. It is haraam and Punishment for such an act is prescribed. See Chapter-7:33, 16:90, 17:32, punishment prescribed in 24:2, 24:19, 25:68, 53:32. In order to save himself from Adulteration sin, a man has been ordained to go for polygamy –(more than one wife). If he commits such sins, he will be punished unless he made a Tauba (repentance) before his death. If a person man or woman remains unmarried, he or she will SURELY commit sin. If someone says you that he or she is sinless, that person has to be a LIAR. Scientifically it is impossible for a healthy person to remain without indulging in sexual activity, throughout his/her life. This is guaranteed by the science. Your quote : “Can you guarantee that if I marry to someone I'll be rewarded by ALLAH, no matter what i do after marriage with my wife and outside world.” Unquote I can guarantee you Allah’s reward if you remain without sinning after your marriage. Why should I or anyone guarantee a sinner who does all the ‘haraam’ things outside of his marriage ? You will bear your sins, I will bear my sins. We are not responsible for each other’s sins. Right? If you choose to sin after your marriage, then go ahead, but do not forget to do Tauba (repentance) before you death. Insha Allah, you will forgiven. Your quote : “Even if I say that a person will not commit any sin but still to marry someone puts a lots of responsibilitoes on you and if you fail to fulfill your responsibilities even then I am sure that the person will not be rewarded by ALLAH rather he will be punished. Its not that u have a Nikah ( marriage ) with someone and thats all, by doing so u always accept a lot of responsibilities which are to be fulfilled otherwise you are again comitting sins. Unquote Dear Atifrafi, you have already put a condition saying “if”. I mean you said “if you fail to fulfill your responsibilities….” I am asking you, why should I fail in my responsibilities as a married man ? What makes you to assume things on your own about me or about anyone else ? Do you think, everyone on this earth, including yourself, failed in their duties, as married men ? If you think so, you are an ignorant. You do not know me and my responsibilities and hence cannot assume as you like. And I am sure, not only me, everyone who has married duly accepting Allah’s command will be rewarded for that part of his responsibility. If he does anything extra marital illegal activity, then the question of punishment comes. Man is sinner. His nature is sinning. There is always a way to remit your sins by Tauba. All the married men and women know their responsibilities well, and all are fulfilling them with fear and Eimaan, and also look forward for the great reward from Allah. To the seeker of Truth, the level of understanding varies person to person. To us whatever is explicit order from Allah, may not be explicit for you. We see orders to marry in several places. You can re-read and re-read to understand the order of Allah in Verse 4:3, and the intensity of the Hadith, I have already quoted. You can also read 4:23 & 24 to see the eligible women to be married, along with forbidden. All these are explicit commands from Allah to marry among the women who are made halaal. May Allah open your intelligence to see the proper meaning of His Message. Ameen. Peace & Responsible Smiles Zeenaeem[/quote]
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