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[quote]Dear Atif I hope you are just trying to play around the words of English, taking support of “Have”, Can” and “May”. These are the words supportive to you to understand the Divine message that was revealed in Arabic. If you read the Arabic Verse, there is no need for you to find, “Can Marry ” to mean other than “Have To Marry”. The Arabic word [blue]“Fankihu”[/blue] does not mean as you assume. "Fankihu" stand for [green]"so marry"[/green] or [green]"then marry"[/green] All verses of Al-Qur’aan are commands from Allah to follow. You cannot wishfully accept anything of your choice and reject anything seems inconvenient to you. In that case, beware of your falling under hypocrisy and going close to apostasy. May be it is waste of time for you. But I do not consider this clarifying procedure as a waste of time because the name of this site is “Studying-Islam”. Do not think that you and me only reading and writing here. It is an open forum for all. If a non-Muslim happens to come here to study Islam and if he happens to read from you he will think that Muslims are marrying without the command of Allah, yet claiming that Al-Qur’aan is complete in all respects. Do you know the impact of damage you are doing, with your scanty knowledge of translation? In order not to rest your questions unanswered, I have to tackle you with the Truth of Al-Qur’aan. Even after seeing the Fatwa posted by a member, you are blind to accept the command of Al-Qur’aan !! Do you think the Fatwa is just issued to please the people ? Your question is not a new one. I have seen questions more serious than this and have successfully clarified and argued months together with Christian Missionaries, on a single point. Here personal ego will not benefit you anything. Don’t be adamant to understand and contradict in each and every paragraph saying that you agree with some and you will not agree with some. For such people there is another command, which I may post in my forthcoming dialogue with you. Taking “IF” statement you are trying to mislead the readers. See your confusion below : Your quote: “"And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphangirls, then marry (other) women of your choice" Its clearly written that "if u fear" then u can marry more than once. Now HOW THIS VERSE ORDERS OR EVEN GIVES PERMISSION FOR MORE THAN ONE MARRIAGES, i am totally unable to understand that. On the other hand, I am not saying that it stops someone from marrying , once or more.” Unquote When you questioned saying “Now HOW THIS VERSE ORDERS OR EVEN GIVES PERMISSION FOR MORE THAN ONE MARRIAGES, …” in the last sentence you said “ I am not saying that it stops someone from marrying, once or more.” Due to the War the orphans were distributed among Muslims and they got married as per the command more than once up to 4. As you assumed, if there was no clear cut order for these things, Allah would have revealed a Verse forbidding everyone to get married and Prophet (peace be upon him) would have stopped them. Then you will say, it is against nature and Allah will not stop. That is why he commanded in Arabic (not English or other language to play with words for people like you). The language used was Arabic and there are command in the verses. In case if there are no orphans involved then too the command to marry fits, in so many verses. You can read Verses – 3 to 28 wherein as I said earlier, these are the commands, making the rules and regulations for Islamic state and a moral behaviour of Muslims. You are attacking the very foundation of the Institution of Marriage in Islam, through which everyone’s life is shaped. Your doubts and questions belong to anti-Islamic sites. The Christian Missionary has posed hundreds of questions and doubts and this is one among those. Running away from responsibilities of marriage is a new concept of the misguided youth of Western countries, to which you have also fallen prey to justify (yours ?) bachelorship. It is haraam. This amounts to Monasticism and fall of morals and humanity. The gay people also are justifying that there is no specific command for them not to marry. So they are marrying. All sort of evil practice erupt from your sort of reading and wrong interpretation of the verse of Al-Qur’aan. Dear Atif, in all the verses wherever you find the word “fankihu”, it means clearly an order, a command, which you have to obey. Do not try to translate in any language of your choice to justify your assumptions. If you obey you will be rewarded. If you do not obey, you will remain a Rejecter of Allah’s command and will definitely be punished for your disobedience. Please note that you CANNOT stay a bachelor life-long, without sinning, without committing an illegal sexual act. In order to understand the Divine Message exactly Ulemas always maintain and suggest to read the Qur’aan in its original language, rather than in any ones own, if someone wants to minutely analyze the truth of Islam. If someone argues that there is no command to eat Rice or Chapati in Al-Qur’aan what you will say about that man. If someone says, there is no command to sleep, how would you call that man. If a nudist argue that there is no command to dress, how will you justify. Does Allah say you to eat mangoes ? He makes fruits, vegetables and other eatables halaal. And forbids few things haraam. You cannot argue taking each and every thing in your hand and ask this is not made halaal. There are people who argue saying that there is no command of 5 times Salah. This is because of lack of proper understanding of the verses. Let me make you understand the verse – 4:3 : “And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphangirls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice.” Regarding your point of “If you fear” referred to in your write-up, please note that the word “if” goes with fear only. Not with anything else. If you do not fear, then you marry them. Somewhere you have assumed that Allah has told to marry their mother. Your quote : “I am sorry to say but I could not see any command here. It is just giving an option that its better. Be very clear about my words, "Its Better" in comparison that u try to take care of orphans but its natural that if there is a dispute between ur own child and the orphan a person will always take side of your own child. So thats y ALLAH said that its BETTER that u marry with their mother and that is also only if u fear that u will not be able to deal with them justly” Unquote The words you have written “Its Better” etc. are only your assumption and translation. Allah did not say to marry their mother. It is also your assumption. Allah says “marry other women” not mothers, as you have assumed. Your quote : “About the Hadith, u said under normal condition, so what are abnormal condition, only medical fitness is enough for Normal condition. I don't think so. If a person cannot fulfill his duties which are posed onto him even then that is not a normal case. Unquote The abnormal condition you ask is other than the normal condition. That is to say that you are medically unfit. Or to say that though you are medically fit to marry, you do not have hands to clean yourself. Because of that no woman comes forward to marry you. Or in case of your having any Acquired disease, or infection which is feared to be spreading from you, say leprosy like diseases, etc. are abnormal conditions. Poverty is not considered a cause of remaining unmarried. You can go for still poorer people to marry without any expenses. Allah is the one who gives you Rizk. When He places another soul in your care, He will surely open new gates for you. I have seen hundreds of people, getting better after their marriage, including myself. Please read Chapter-4, Verse-25 : “And whoever of you have not the means wherewith to wed free, believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those (captives and slaves) whom your right hands possess, and Allah has full knowledge about your Faith, you are one from another. [blue][b]Wed them [/b] [/blue] with the permission of their own folk (guardians, Auliya’ or masters) and give them their Mahr according to what is reasonable; they (the above said captive and slave-girls) should be chaste, not adulterious, nor taking boy-friends…..” Dear Atifrafi, you have to marry if you are beyond any abnormal condition, described above. There is no escape. If you chose to discuss further, most welcome. Peace & Normalized Smiles Zeenaeem[/quote]
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