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[quote]Dear Madam Saadia Malik, Waalaikum’Assalam
        
Yes madam, you are right as the time is over. Now the time is to forget the things, as it is useless to take up old quarrels. 
        
In short, what I meant was, “Every one has the right to be satisfied based on the solid evidence only, by one who asserts”. If unable to prove, must not beat about the bushes and a third, fourth and so on, must intervene to solve the problem before the discussion takes the difficult turn to reach some misfortune, otherwise according to me our gathering here seems not to be fruitful. The truth must always be regarded regardless of the religion and person who is speaking or writing. Do not mind please as I am saying in general.
        
Some people, like me, are very much difficult to be handled by someone with wrinkles on the forehead on one hand but very much easy on the other hand by a smaller piece of pity. It must be remembered that the second way is more powerful and if one is unable to adapt it unintentionally then the other one must do otherwise a third person must do intervene before appearing a critical situation as it is often impossible for the two to overcome the situation at their own. Perhaps we do not know the reward of this deed. Today I also want to remind this teaching of Islam to all the readers.     
       
It must not be forgotten that we Muslims are brothers and sisters and such types of problems, confusions or misunderstandings are not unusual even between the real brothers and sisters but the relationship of brotherhood is never ever broken. I am sorry and apologise as my post hurt you.
       
So far as your quote “I don't see why you're reading too much into my posts” is concerned, I read all the posts carefully not a single time but sometimes multiple times too, and I have not yet come across such problem with someone anywhere at the site, how much I have gone through, except one whom I am avoiding deliberately and on the other hand it would have had made no difference if I were have had avoided you too. The loss of rest assurance was not primary but secondary to the situation and the circumstances and furthermore perhaps due to increased threshold of our minds, which respond to increased sympathetic nervous impulses. Can you imagine, “How much did I remain disturbed last days?” I needed a smaller piece of pity, which I could not found anywhere, so “a desperate man, all things can” and it can’t be denied by anyone.    
      
Suppose if someone produces multiple vectors (or effects) of difference magnitudes and directions; it then always has a resultant vector, the magnitude and direction of which determines the net effect (I mean, intentions), if can not be understood clearly by someone, God is “Samee & Baseer” and the Hadith “Innamal, Aamalo, Binneyyaat” Can you recall the person forgiven by God, after one hundred murders and why not those be forgiven who can’t even think of this crime? I mean to give this example of the Hadith here, not saying about the persecutory and paranoid delusions, which some people sometimes surely have. We must always have a firm belief and fear of Allah Almighty only and bilateral patience, which is done assured on my part in the future but NO compromise on understanding something without a solid evidence in a generous way by anyone.

May Allah help and forgive us, Aameen![/quote]

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