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[quote]Asalaam Alaykum brothers
i pray that you are all in the best of health and imaan, Ameen.

Having read both articles i strongly agree that in this day and age to protect our daughters(i have 2, aged under 9) we should encourage them to marry at a reasonably young age. This does not mean to say that they should be married at the age of 9 or 12!!!

The reason why i say 'reasonably young age' is because there is too much fitna around these days and it is very easy for youngsters to fall into this trap, especially in the west as this is a 'normal' thing' for them.

I think that if a child under the age of 15 is having sex than there is something seriously wrong!! Either they are doing it because of peer pressure or because their upbringing has been distorted in some way.

Children should be playing and learning NOT thinking of 'how to impress a boy' or 'the latest fasionable thing'!! It has become too easy for children to lose their childhood.

As you have probably heard about so many 'underage pregnancies' it just goes to show that these 'children' are not mature enough to have sex because the responsibilty of protecting themselves against getting pregnant has not occured to them at all!! otherwise they wouldnt have got pregnant in the first place!!

So, bro, do you still think they should get married at the age of 9?!!

Remember, times have changed and things arent as simple as in the time of the prophet(SAW).

Wasalaam[/quote]

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