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[quote]In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful.

QUOTE: i am soo apprehensive as i c soo many couples sad and soo many married girls suffering coz of one thing or the other.... and all of them say nearly one thing that its impossible to understand a man.

In my previous reply I said, “In general, try to understand the psychology of your husband” and perhaps your girl friends are pointing out the matter in this context.

So far as psychology of the husband is concerned, I meant nothing special but to understand his “likes” and “dislikes” only.

In general NEVER hear to those who give you some tip which you asses (before applying) it to be irritating your husband.

So far as the rights are concerned, mother of the husband is right who had born and brought him up and the wife is also right who has been handed over to him to live and die with him. The problem, which arises, is nothing but the clash between the two true LOVEs. The problems may be solved if the mother looks seriously at her retrospectives when she was not a mother - just a wife and the wife looks seriously at her perspectives when she will be a mother not only a wife. When these two thinkings gather at one place I hope these two shades of God, under the feet of home lies paradise - said by the Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him), must make a home a paradise.

The suspiciousness, in general, is one of the roots of the problems. Please see below what God says:

“When you received it with your tongues and spoke with your mouths what you had no knowledge of, and you deemed it an easy matter while with Allah it was grievous? And why did you not, when you heard it, say: It does not beseem us that we should talk of it; glory be to Thee! This is a great calumny? (24: 15, 16)”

NOTE: Do not worry; the understanding of  “likes”, “dislikes” etc is not only for you but he as well. The only difference is because man is dominant in the society and a woman has to sacrifice more.[/quote]

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