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[quote]As-Salaamu Alaikum.

You have written: “many married girls suffering coz of one thing or the other....and all of them say nearly one thing that its impossible to understand a man so wat do men say to that ?????”

What I feel from this comment of your is that you seems to be a typical Pakistani girl who is needlessly afraid of one of the best blessing in human life. I think a woman, as well as man, should be delighted to start a new type of life.

There is one distinct feature about men and women different. Men are less sensitive as compare to women. So obviously the insensitivity also goes towards their wives. This dos not mean in any way that they dislike their wives now. The romantic phase of beginning married life is withered a little.

Women, on the other hand, are very sensitive. This causes them to exaggerate the issues at hand. In return the negative thinking causing them to torture themselves unnecessarily.

I always believe that men should not gaze at other women and women should not overreact at small matters. I also believe that most of the women’ problems are created by themselves due to mishandling of their matters.

There is nothing to be afraid about. In couple of months, if one deals with wisdom setting aside one emotions, form an excellent relation with a spouse that last forever. Of course the relation should be of love and not pretense.

I do not know how much this help you but still that’s what I think is the right way.

May Lord Bless You With A Happy Married Life.

[Unfortunately I cannot ask you what others are asking; I am writing this from Karachi][/quote]

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