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[quote]Assalaamu Alaikum.

First of all, I would like to add a disclaimer to my previous posting in this forum. [b]Arrogance is [red]one[/red] of the possibilities.[/b]

Secondly, coming to your valid concern, here is how I would look at the situation. I would try to convince myself that the "ignoring tactics" of the other person are merely my suspicions. But despite all such efforts, if my conscience finds itself convinced otherwise, I would truly be honest and upright in addressing the other person by telling him/her what I think has been going on. God willing, things may improve, and if they apparently don't, then [i]only Allah knows what is best for us.[/i]

Also, whether or not I go upto the person with my suspicions, I would do myself a great deal of good by being patient and mindfully neglecting his/her misgivings, rather than returning arrogance with arrogance i.e. anger.

I do understand how nerve-wrecking such reception can be. May Allah help us all.

Allah Hafiz.

Saadia

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peace
sometimes we know that the other person is really nice but u feel angry b/c that person keeps ignoring u
is this reflecting arrogance in us or that person
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