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[quote]Every society needs to celebrate and socialize, have entertainment and time out. Allah has already decreed two Eids on Muslims to full fill this need. Besides that events keep coming in families, colonies, tribes and groups like Marriage, Aqeeqa on child birth, seeing off and welcoming Hajis and so on. Adding other things like eid Miladun nabi, Meraj celebration, Basant celebration, Engagement celebrations, Ameen ceremonies, Puberty ceremonies, special and extravagant birthday ceremonies, Anniversaries  and Wedding celebrations for 7 and 10 days with Mehandi, Ubtan and so on over the top and many others are over-doing and being obsessed about fun and celebration and Entertainment rather than concentrating on other important aspects and duties as well as spending time and money in the right way in life.

Women have a very important role to play in all this. In our culture its still men who are mainly responsible for earning and other main matters of the family, women use their time planning and organizing many unnecessary occasions and events, can be done well without which.

Instead they need to spread out their hours in more planned ways keeping their education and involvement in more beneficial and supportive activities for their families, extended families, Schools, Mosques  and other such community places. Due to the new technologies they can do many favors to the family and others living around or even globally by just sitting in the safe and secure environment of their homes[/quote]

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