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[quote]Assalamoalaykum dear sisters

hope u all r enjoying the site.
this came up today in our local studying islam circle.
there r some of us sisters who r v. particular about the fact that we shud do all our daily house work ourselves and even if we cud afford shud not take help from servants etc.
reasons being "apnay haath ki safai ki baat he kuch aur hey"(the way u clean urself no one can")
"haath key pisay huay masalay ka zaiqa he farq hota hey"
(the spices we grind ourselves taste better);
thereby spending most of our time in these things, being left with no or v. little time for activities like reading/teaching Qura'n/Sunnah, islamic manners etc., participating in religious/charity activities by meeting people/websites,etc.
we do agree that for a woman most reward is to keep her home in best state as a corner/land of peace for family but we need to balance.
spending 15 mins on shining a crystal figurine cud b spent on shining someones heart with the light of Truth;(as said by dr farhat hashmi, a renowned lady islamic scholar) if we do possess that light with Allah's blessing, whereas a helper cud do this cleaning job in return for a small amount of wage; an employment for a needy as well.
this money we give to a helper in order for ourselves  to gain time to work for the the Cause of Truth will certainly b counted as spent in the way of Lord.

wud b nice to hv your opinions. thnx

henna[/quote]

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