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[quote][b][purple]thats wat we meant br wen we said"shudn't hv men in women's issues as they cause confusion"[:p] [V]
but we welcome u as we know u are an islamic researcher and know more than we do

however u hv misunderstood wat we meant here

the e.g. of polishing the crystal decor was given to epitomize the extraordinary effort we put into home chores, out of balance

e.g. one of our friend has made dining chairs herself [:0] at home as well; not b/c she cud not afford them from market, but just that she fancies spending time on such

"too much sugar can make one nauseate"

we do not at all mean that women shud leave their homes dirty, food uncooked, children crying and husbands howling; and rush out for preaching

don't the h.wives go shopping, chatting with friends etc? rather we hardly find any h.wife at home here b/w 11am to 2pm[8)] (hvn't mentioned time spent with tv dramas, songs,etc. no offence. a general fact.)
 and even if this preacher did not go out, she will continually b preaching, with her actions, words, smiles, watever!(donno why u call it preaching? its just conveying something u hv and which happens auto matically! u don't really hv to DO it?)

so for all extra activities we must keep in mind the preferences 
and try to do something which can b a favour not just to self, but to more around us

we ought to b like sweet scented, colourful flowers
who do not care whether people hv come to the garden to see them or not
they wud continue bloomimng and continue spreading their perfumes round the clock and whether spectators surround them or not, carefree and unaware of admirations/anger/criticism/care/carefree/neglegence/ignorance/jealousies
'cause thats the way Lord made them and thats the way they chose to b;
agreeing with their Lord's plans [^]

[red]Thou perceivest the flowers put forth their precious odours, And none can tell how from so small a centre come such sweets, Forgetting that within that centre, Eternity expands its everduring doors [/red] william blake

wat we meant here was that we must keep our home chores up to date but must not b obsessed about them like the nation of Irum; who were busy beautifying their houses round the year 'n had no time for activities related to hereafter.

btw how do u expect them to spare time for your courses as well as a matter of fact our dear br?[?][8)] [;)]

pls continue to send in ur expert opinions in this regard. we listen 'n learn  with due respect[/purple]

[green]salams on u/peace[/green][/b]

Edited by: studyingislamuk on Monday, May 17, 2004 4:18 PM

Edited by: studyingislamuk on Monday, May 17, 2004 4:37 PM

Edited by: studyingislamuk on Monday, May 17, 2004 4:53 PM[/quote]

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