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[quote]According to my research:
Love marriage and arranged marriage, both have almost [b]SAME[/b] success and divorce rate.

I found divorces and success in both cases almost equally in my society.

So it is [b]something else [/b] which makes your marriage successful, whether it happens as love or arranged marriage.

I am in favour of something mixed; i would say it &quot;LIKE MARRIAGE&quot;..haha....

real LOVE I believe develops after marriage... after a little time living together.....

but nowdays boys and girls [b]SHOULD[/b] atleast like each other before marriage...otherwise i see, it causes great difficulty to continue.

And [i]LIKE[/i] [b]MEANS[/b]: that you say : he/she is [b]ok[/b] or even [b]so so [/b] or [b]not bad [/b] etc......

but if really something u find irritating or discomforting to you in him/her , then a girl or boy should not marry to him or her....

Lastly, I think if marriage is arranged, even then in present time, taking advantage of present day technology : [b]girls and boys, with the knowledge and permission of parents, should allow to talk on phone or internet chatting for few times ......[/b]

now young people, especially girls, know a lot [b]as compared to our olden days[/b] and they want to ask it to their future spouses before saying [b]&quot;yes&quot;[/b].....

i think, Islam has no problem with it.....

God Knows Better

Edited by: safimera on Sunday, October 03, 2010 4:10 AM[/quote]

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