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[quote]Salam and thankyou Ibrahim sahab. It answers a lot of questions in our minds. We all need to understand the context given by Quran itself  and stop using it for our personal gain.  Though I disagree with this view of the article...      &quot; For example, in our society, many young widows and divorced women with small children have to live a life of misery and no one is willing to accept them as wives. Such widows and children can lead normal lives if this permission is benefitted from.&quot; Why can't a single man marry a widow or a divorced woman? second wife will always create a feeling of misery and insecurity with the fist wife and her kids.When a man marries a woman  it should be as a commitment to establish a family and not as a 'ehsan', unequal relationships are not good ones. When the society mentions in the usual circumstance a 'widow' like a handicap then the woman feels like one, why should she?We don't need handicaps we need productive members in our society. When our prophet married Hazrat Khadija he was single much younger and she was a widow much older mature and independent, she never married him because she was a helpless victim of fate and  needed a sahara.  We need  our women to keep Hazrat Khadija as  their role model. It's Hinduism where a woman is an outcast and feels her life is at an end not in Islam.[/quote]

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