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[quote]Assalaamu Alaikum Sister,

I do not know of a book for you to read , but there are some articles on the following site (it is the convert section): http://thetruereligion.org/modules/xfsection/

My best friend has reverted to Islam and she is having the same problem you are. Pleae don't let it get you down sister. Try surrounding yourself with good muslimahs who can give you comfort and a place to feel safe, accepted, and well. You may also try sharing some of the articles at truereligion.org site with your family nshaAllah.

For the issue with you wanted babies although your husband has outlined his position in your marriage contract, i can only give a suggestion. Maybe you have tried already, but speak with him about your concerns and your need and want to be a mommy. Allow him to feel secure with you in the marriage to the point he will no longer question or doubt the longevity of your marriage nshaAllah. Maybe it is so painful for himto be without his children under his care. I dont know. Maybe he is most afraid of that happening again. I don't know his feelings; all i think is you must do your best to rid him of the insecurity he feels now. I wish i could help you, but Allah knows best and He will guide you nshaALlah. May Allah bless you and your husband with beautiful, healthy babies nshaAllah. May Allah guide you and keep you safe, and us all.

May the peace and blessings of Allah e upon you in this difficult time and always.

Jameelah

(I hope you will get many replies to yours post in this thread and the other.)[/quote]

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