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[quote]>>Your angry for a while but you soon realize that nothing much has changed in your relationship other than that he sleeps somewhere else every other day.

I think you are assuming too much here.

>>But those feelings are brought upon by Shaitan

What has Satan got to do with jealousy?

>>The prophet Muhammad commanded that unmarried men, if they have not been married before should marry virgins.

Should marry virgins? May I have the reference for this please?

>>This is a well known sunnah of the prophet Muhammad.

If so then Imam Ibn Taymmiah, Imam At Tabari, Imam Nawawi and Imam Bukhari are guilty of violating it.

>>So to ask an unmarried man to be noble by marrying a widow is something which is not approved of by Islam.

Has it been disapproved by it?

>> But he finds that not only is he unsatisfied with the sex life, but he's also unable to connect on a personal level

It depends on personal preference. Great Hollywood example - Ashton Kutcher (25) and Demi Moore (40). Moreover, I think there is therapy available.

>>and may even lead the husband to end up committing adultery.

A noble person would never do it. If unmarried people can stay away from fornication, the case for adultery weakens in the case of married folks.

>>He married a widow and regretted his decision due to their age difference as well as her not being a virgin.

I dont want to pass judgments here but I think your friend was quite cheap to bring in the virgin factor here.

>>......adviced him not to divorce his wife.

Well we already have Zayd divorcing Zaynab. If mental conditions do not connect, then second marriage would sort out nothing for the relation between the first wife and the guy.

Edited by: junaidj on Sunday, December 26, 2004 8:48 AM[/quote]

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