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[quote]Asa wb

Lastly to Junaidj, i never heard of harem and i can't see that as a part of Islam from your description of it.  I don't see any dignity or modesty for either gender in it.  Unless it is specifically stated in the Holy Qur'an i cannot believe that. [xx(]

In response to [orange]"why does the Koran mention the 'big eyes' property?"[/orange]

Yeah i know some people say it is a attractive quality in a woman but can you plz tell me what does a woman find attractive about a man?  His nose, his hair errr what[?][?][?]

If we do not take the "big eyes" description literally:

1) Allah Swt could be emphasising how maybe its the eyes of the hoors that will be the [orange]focal point[/orange] of beauty and attraction.  This is something both men and women desire in their partners.

2) Dr Zakir Naik said: [limegreen]"a person having eyes characterized by hauar a special quality bestowed upon a [orange]good soul[/orange], male or female in paradise and it denotes the intense whiteness of the white part of the spiritual eye."[/limegreen]

If we were to take the "big eyes" description literally, i dont see anything wrong in a woman desiring big eyes in a man.  It's not like Allah Swt described the hoors having big pouty lips and long flowing hair with slim bodies and voices like birds or something.[:X]  If such descriptions were mentioned how can i argue with that?

So i don't see anything wrong in males having big eyes, hoors are different from human beings anyway, their beauty is [orange]beyond our imagination[/orange].

Lastly i would like to note that when i look at hoors i look at them as companions, friends, soul mates who are specially for you and no one else.  So intimate relationships wasn't at the top of my list, that is not the only thing that one desires from their partner.  Like Dr Zakir Naik said a hoor is a:

[limegreen]"a person having eyes characterized by hauar a special quality bestowed upon a good soul"[/limegreen]

Jazakallah for all your comments!!! [:D][/quote]

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