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[quote]QUOTE: hi, i was just wondering why u shouldn't blow on hot food/drink, as if u eat it v hot wouldnt it burn/scold ur mouth causing pain.

She (ummjuwayriyah) is meaning to WAIT till to be able to eat/drink, NOT TO BLOW as it looks awkward same as brewing if sitting among others. Blowing and brewing may be the centre of concentration for the all. Therefore these must be avoided.

Continuing her advices to the women for children, I would like to add some more:

22.  Drink milk happily, as the most children are reluctant.

23.	Eat whatever cooked at home.

24. Leave the place where the people are smoking.

25.  Do not take anything from a stranger, to eat.

26.	 Study and play according to a timetable- never be a player all the time and never be a bookworm.

27. Sleep early and get up early.

28.   Respect parents, teachers, elders as well as youngers.

29.	Listen to everybody generously and think to be creative, not be bigoted, conservative and destructive.

30.	Do not walk bare footed, and in the sun in the summer.
 
The parents must keep the system of reward or some sort of punishment to the children, steadily. The children must not be beaten, as it will make them more resistant and they may do any mistake at the cost of one or two slaps.

Regarding the reward or punishment, father and mother both bust have the same thinking. Loss of this attitude is responsible for some habits of the children. Furthermore both (father and mother) must NEVER be angry or quarrelsome to each other in front of the children. This leaves irreversible untoward psychological effects on the children.  As children acquire the habits from the parents, they must not do, for example, smoking etc and others in front of the children.

Edited by: Loveall on Sunday, March 20, 2005 12:15 AM[/quote]

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