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[quote]In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful.

QUOTE: married man cannot wait for the days of menses and the next wife should be ready.

There must be some difference between the humans and animals. Sex is always related to mind. If the mind is dirty even more than four wives are not enough otherwise as I have mentioned above one is sufficient. Remember that basic theme of multiple marriages is not the sexual satisfaction.

QUOTE: Since the Quran does not explicitly prohibit marrying women for lust or for a reason that is not charitable.

Sorry to say, use of the word LUST is a big stain on the Shariah. If you say, “Since the Quran does not EXPLICITLY prohibit” Do not you mean that one can break the arms and legs of someone with foot because foot is not explicitly mentioned in the Shariah but the with one’s hands and tongue one must not hurt others. Isn’t it?

QUOTE: He feared Allah and thought that if he demanded his rights that she was neglectful…..

No doubt both have rights on each other. Regarding the sex, if she is not in urge of the sex, for the time being, there is absolutely No sin on her part to refuse her husband and if the husband does, according to me, it is an unnatural sexual offence, even per vaginum, like the other unnatural sexual offences. In general, all the unnatural sexual offences are major sins and are labelled as crimes to the nature.

The sexual intercourse without urge of a wife is unnatural and always painful therefore must be avoided. In these conditions, if the problem persists consult the doctor who may think on the both sides either to normalise her sexual urge or decreases the hyper sexuality of the husband. It must be remembered that the male hyper sexuality is a very important symptom or sign of some psychotics’ disorders. So it must be kept in mind that any one who want to do more than one marriages without popper indication as said by Islam but just for enjoying the sex, his mental state must be evaluated to know the underlying abnormality.

Wassalam with the SAYINGS OF GOD:

And the believing men and the believing women, they are guardians of each other (9: 71).

Edited by: Loveall on Friday, June 24, 2005 11:36 PM[/quote]

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