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[quote]In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful.

My point of view does not mean that the parents must not be convinced or taken into the confidence. But it must always be tried to convince them and even some other people may be brought to do so, if our decision is right.  But what should be done if they (parents) DON’T AT ALL agree. In this situation of disagreement of the parents, No option other than to chide or confront them seems to be there. And does Islam allow confronting them and becoming the rebellious? This is the only what I mean.

We must not forget, in the coming time, we will also be the parents. Would we like to be chided and confronted by those whom we call the lobes of our liver? Think for a while otherwise the time and tide wait for none.

The Parents must also think positively.

Oosman, mostly you say everywhere, “nowhere it is written” So the lamb understanding of such people is like those who say for example, “One is allowed to break the arms and legs of someone with foot because foot is not explicitly mentioned in the Shariah but with one’s hands and tongue one must not hurt others. Isn’t it?

By the way, those who consider them very much wise to select their life partner and after the marriage why they (MALES) are in search of finding the FALSE WAY of doing second, third and the fourth marriage? Why do they become not happy with that guy for whom MAY have chided and confronted their parents and earned the anger of God? This may happen after selection by the parents but achieving the pleasure of God must be at the top priority not our personal desires and the benefits. This is one of the examples of Taqwa (piety) especially for those who consider themselves Loving/Caring and committed to God and raise the tympanic slogans in the air NOTHING ELSE………..

In short and summarizing the all, it must always be tried to convince the parents but if they (parents) do not at all agree, what must be done? Should one confront them and become the rebellious. What does Islam say in case of disagreement of the parents? This is the only what I mean. In this case, to me, one has no option other than to submit to the parents for their as well as God’s pleasure and with the passage of time all the problems may be solved OTHERWISE those who are not good to their parents, in any aspect, they eat shoes in this world.[/quote]

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