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[quote]Causing pain to someone is not alwayes bad as long as such a pain may help bringing a greater good or prevent something that can be destructive . I believe some of us have chosen to bear the pain of a dentist for the better result they longed for. It's clear that in Islam, family is  valued as the small unit which, together with other families make up the whole society . Therefore, anything which causes any shaking of family stability will in return  damage the whole Muslim society in a destructive way. In order to maintain the stability of the Muslim family, Allah swt has given Man a bigger authority over the family than that of other family members. Man is suppose to understand that with such an authority comes responsibility and wisdom of how to use it. He is not suppose to act in dicatorship way when dealing with family issues but rather to consult his wife other members of the family, but such an authority is to be only used when the whole family in in a dispute where they have to make a choice on a matter that can result in a great damage to the family if  not solved properly, In such a case the whole family is suppose to cooperate in solving the problem throough consulting and discussing and man should have no problem in following the opinion of his wife, son, or daughtur if it's better than his but there is no way of solving the problem if every member of the family choose to follow a different way in dealing with the issue out of stuborness which in a result may lead to a great division and damage to the whole family and this is when man may have to resort to use several methods in correcting the other side and helping for protecting the stability of family.[/quote]

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