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Salams,

My original post was for Proud Christian. 
However Rakhtal & Bhavittre are seem to think 
they can win the argument by attacking me.

Rakhtal, you can follow anyone, the Quran 
interpretations on verse 2:231 are all the same.

Bhavittre, you have answered your own question!

Any form of abuse or violence on the wife 
by the husband for any reason is completely
forbidden (See 2:231 & others including
Prophet's last sermon). Even during wartime, 
women & children are not to be harmed!

The only reason for which a Muslim woman 
can be physically punished is through an
Islamic court, and only if she is proved a [maroon][i]zani[/i] [/maroon] 
witnessed by four adults (24:2). Otherwise her
husband can either keep her, separate or divorce 
her if she is indecent [maroon][i]fahisha[/i] [/maroon] see (65:1). 
Or the husband & wife can swear an oath 
to the Islamic court (24:6)

If anyone accuses other honourable sisters of 
'promoting the circumstances' for women to 
become [maroon][i]fahisha[/i], [/maroon] promiscuous, adultress or 
prostitutes, then the punishment is, as the in 
verse 24:4.

There is no where in the Quran where the 
word [maroon][i]daraba[/i] [/maroon] means physically to 'beat'. 
[maroon][i]Daraba[/i]  [/maroon] in [maroon][i]idribhunna[/i]  [/maroon] can mean anything from 
separation & eviction or providing an example 
to the [maroon][i]nashazi[/i][/maroon] (4:34), unchaste or [maroon][i]fahisha[/i][/maroon] wife! 
(see prophet's last sermon)

The obedience of [maroon][i]salahat qanatat[/i] [/maroon] (4:34) wives 
is to Allah swt, in safeguarding her privacy 
(or chastity). And husbands are [maroon][i]qawwamum-fadhl[/i] [/maroon] 
over them i.e take every care of their wives concerns.

In summary, there is the following hadith from
the Prophet on the rights of a wife. A person 
asked the Messenger of Allah, “What right does 
the wife of one among us have over him?” 
His answer was, “It is that you shall give 
her food, you shall not slap her on the face, nor revile her, 
nor leave her alone except within the house”

(Ahmad, Abu Da’ud, Ibn Majah).

This implies [i][i][blue]provision[/blue], [red]residence[/red], [green]respect[/green] and [purple]security[/purple].[/i][/i]

I hope this is clear.

I won't be back, because I am busy and
I have other commitments.

I pray Allah guides you all.

Wasalam,
Thameena[/quote]

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