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[quote][quote]ab aik naya masala khara ho gaya hey hamari masjid mein(there has been a new problem in our mosque recently)

women have been stuffed into the basement because of the reason that kids cry sometimes during the prayers [xx(]
i was wondering would the beloved sws do that for this reason. what i know is he would rather cut the prayers short.
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The fitwa of the day would say that,
1. Mosque is not a playground, neither a nursery nor an entertaining place. Its a simple serious place where u pray to God together. 
2. Kids are no where meant for serious places. As we can not take them to offices, courts, meetings and other serious places, such rule applies to that incase of Masjid.
3. Kids running around and screaming may not only trouble the namazis but the kids themselves are on risk to stumble and hurt themselves which again may pull aways parents' attention.  
4. Prayers can be done in a place where noise is unavoidable but if noise can be avoided its better.
5.In relation to kids groaming in masjid, I would like to say few things.
firstly, I have seen and heared those infants strat crying as the people starts making rows and they feel suffocation. The moment Imam starts qirat, the kids start screaming as the voice/noise is too loud for them. 
Secondly, how the infants feel when they are left alone in a strange enviorment, with maximum suffocation, screaming and no-one giving any heed, feeling unsecure.

I would say this is a bad influence on the kids and in a way they wud b repelled with the mosque enviorment.

[quote] secondly we feel that the fus that some teenage boys make around masjids, specially ramadan, between and after 8 rakas taraweeh; fathers are equally responsible; rather in a better position than mothers to handle. so there ought to be some sort of accountability for fathers as well. [/quote]

Its better one sort out his domestic matters at home. Y cant a father stay at home take care of baby and the women can pray in the mosque. if that is what u need. Just one question from working parents, how do u carry out the kids' care in ur normal life. Do u carry out ur children to any workplace or serious matters?

About those teenagers, I would say that its now culture of the town for men to get entertained in the mosque and have all kinda of gupshup in their.
The mosques have typically acuired the look of shrines.
*The filth namazis creat in its washrooms, and the stinking smell u get when u get into or even pass by a mosque.
*The tekadaari system of mullah and his financers on mosque.
*the dogmatic and ritual base looks and behaviours.
*a [b]no-place[/b] for open and objective discussions about our life matters.

Edited by: gohar on Thursday, February 02, 2006 3:36 PM[/quote]

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