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[quote]Quite a few are suffering or are plagued with the same dilemma, so what is the solution? I agree with taqi01 you should not leave your friends only for this reason.  If they are in any way trying to influence you to compromise your values then maybe distancing yourself from them would be a good idea. What usually happens in this situation is that one day you will be asked to give a cover story for your friends  that is lie to their parents this is where the divide comes, this is where you will have to make a decision do you want  to lie to keep your friendship intact or say goodbye? It is not an easy situation and a very difficult thing to say no to a good friend.
                  The other part  of your post is …… why? Why do your friends do this? The answer is to go out with a boy is COOL and a sign of maturity. Pakistan  is a closed society not many parents appreciate their daughters and sons to have friends of the opposite sex. I feel if more parents are open to the idea of a group of friends meeting each other in a safe and controlled environment  then less will be the urge  to be only boyfriend and girlfriend.  Activities like going to a movie in a group and under supervision  or getting together at one friend’s house helps to have a social life but learning to interact in an acceptable fashion. The problem is most parents  have  no clue how to handle teenagers, a big NO to all requests is the only solution they have.  Xoya  if your friends are going out without their parent’s consent then 50% is their fault and 50% is their parents. I will  let you figure out why I think  it is the Parent’s fault too.[/quote]

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