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[quote]Dear Brother or Sister Aboosait India. Assalamoeleikumwarehmatullah. First of all you need to have a broad mind to understand what you read. Even if it is Quraan, The Book of God, you have to think and keep your mind open. You are reading everything with your chronic 'Saudi Fatwah Mind' so everything makes the meanings for you what you want to understand.You are looking at everything with the same glasses.
 
May be if you read some of the courses on this site it will help.
Becoming a part of Mosque Committee does not mean that a woman will leave her home or natural duties which she owes to her family. Why you get threatened? Why you feel so insecure being taken over by women? Or that she will leave you and your children and never come back [:)]. Here in Nigeria some of the learned Imams give women the opportunity to come and talk and these women use this right to give ideas and suggestions about ladies' and children's programmes in the mosques.If women are in the decision making bodies, they can convey the women's and children's concerns better to the brothers.It does not mean that they are there to fight with the brothers of the committees.

These women should be encouraged and respected and the brothers and the Community should be thankful to them that they are doing extra work and taking so much burden upon themselves that they are doing their own duties and also these extra duties to help other women and children around them and specially the men should take their hats off to them because these women are saving their women and children and trying to bring guidance to them. Instead of criticizing them and passing comments on them.

I am sure if Prophet Mohammad Mustafa Salatu wassalaam, our leader and master and our teacher was alive today, he would keep such brave and courageous sisters like our Moderator sister Dr. Khan in the front lines instead of pushing and suppressing them behind because Mashalah Taala our Prophet sallallahuelehewasallam was a brave and confident man who trusted himself.

Not like some men of today who remain worried about losing their own seats and power if they let these skillful and bright women come forward.
This is the fear some men have which inclines them to make so called 'Islamic Laws' about women which are baseless and alien to Islam.

REMEMBER!! BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL WOMAN ALSO THERE IS A DECENT AND OPEN MINDED MAN WHO TRUSTS HIMSELF AND TRUSTS HIS WIFE, MOTHER, SISTER OT DAUGHTER. NOT A PIECE OF JUNK WITH DOUBTS,CONFUSIONS, INSECURITIES, IGNORANCE AND COMPLEXES. SUCH MEN CAN NEVER BRING OUT THE SKILLS OF THEIR WIVES AND OTHER FEMALE RELATIVES AND THOSE POOR LADIES JUST SUFFER AT THEIR HANDS WITH ALL THEIR EDUCATION AND SKILLS THROWN OUT OF THE WINDOW AND HENCE THEIR CHILDREN ALSO LEFT BEHIND. ALL BECAUSE OF SUCH MANIAC MEN SADLY, WHO THINK THEY ARE OBEYING GOD BY OPPRESSING WOMEN!!!BECAUSE UNFORTUNATELYTHEY CANNOT COMPETE MEN IN THEIR FIELDS, THEY SHOW ALL THEIR BRAVERY BY OPPRESSING WOMEN, DISCOURAGING THEM OR EVEN BEATNG THEM, ALL IN THE NAME OF ISLAM AND GOD.mAY GOD REWARD THE ORGANIZERS OF THIS SITE AND GIVE THEM MORE POWER AND AUTHORITY WHO HAVE STOOD UP TO CLARIFY THESE MISUNDERSTANDINGS ABOUT WOMEN AND ISLAM.[/quote]

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