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[quote]many thnx/jazakumullah dear Dr. Waseem and Dr. Nesreen for your precious time. May Allah bless your skills further and reward you the most.
I think we need Islamic scholar's opinion now, but if you wish to add something plz do. 
regards

[blue]Sallam Alikum 
Date: 19/11/2004 21:53:55 GMT Standard Time 
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Sallam Alikum

Thank you very much for help I appreciate it. I am so glad you did give me those leaflets it is a nice website.
--------is still the same. masallah she is praying 5 times a day and regulay reading quran and making duas regularly every day. she usually faints at night now, she is at her mother house where she prefers to be. I will give her sallams to her from you.

Sister Henna i very much appreciate that you are helping me, i thank you very much and may allah swt reward you for this.

I do not mind if you talk to other people about this.

Anyways Sis Henna I did make a doctors appointment for my wife she was going along with it but the day before the appointment she refused to go. She is so convinced she has and her parents and other relatives that she has got a Jinn. She explained to me why she is so convinced she has got a jinn.  Sister Henna me and my mother I tried convincing my wife and her family that just let her see a doctor just to be sure that she has not got a medical problem so that at least we can eliminate the point she has not a medical problem.

Sister Henna I just feel like giving up with her because I have done my utter best to help ------ and as well looking after my mother as she is a single parent of mine her health is getting worse she is on anti depression tablets.

It has been 16 months I have been married I got married last July and-------just stayed with me till January after her mis carriage.  I can see for my self that she is loosing interest in me and does not want to live with me (this might be due to her condition that she is in).

Sis Henna I know she would not go to doctors and her parents won’t let this happen, I have tried my best to help her but family and relatives come in the way. She does not want to live with me and she is living at her mother’s house because she believes she not comfortable living at my mum’s house (where I live) and she thinks she faints a lot there.

I am only 18 in fulltime education at last year of six form I am ready to give up my education to help my wife out to give her all the help support that she needs.

Sis Henna I know I can’t carry on living like a single life even though I am married. I don’t know why I seem to be fed up and just wanting to divorce her.

It is maybe because my wife is not listening to me and does not see me as a husband but like a stranger. She is all fine with other people in talking wise but when it comes to me she all quite and what it makes me feel hurt the most is that I am like a stranger to her. I really want to have a family of my own and have wife that does her part as a wife by following the obligation of wife according to Islam and me doing my part as husband.

Sister Henna what do you think I should do…

[blue]Wasillam

Thank u very much for help  [/blue]

[purple]waalaykum assalaam and Thnx for details
May Allah help you out . My utmost prayers for you to remain united; so that you can practice

"Bear with me! Grow old with me.Best has yet to come!" [:D][^][:)]

"May Lord unite you two in the best of union" Prophet's sws dua'

Marriage is a life time bondage and one needs to sacrifice in order to keep this. You can see the difference in relations between the eastern and western society for that matter. Where people feel there's no need to suffer/sacrifice for eachother, broken families result.

Have posted your query and will let you know when reply comes from islamic scholars
In the meantime plz see

http://www.studying-islam.org/querytext.aspx?id=25

wassalaam 'n regards
henna

Dr.HKhan
for free internet courses on Islam visit 
 www.studying-islam.org
for academic material on Islam visit 
www.monthly-renaissance.com[/purple]

Edited by: hkhan on Saturday, November 20, 2004 3:14 AM[/quote]

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