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Mazhara
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 Topic initiated on Sunday, April 3, 2011 - 1:43 PM 
Divorce before تَمَسُّوهُنَّ "matrimonial linkage"
Divorce before تَمَسُّوهُنَّ "matrimonial linkage"
The believers are at liberty to seek women for marriage, other than those who are non-permissible for relationship of sanctity, from amongst the virgins, divorced, or widows. These women either may belong to group who enjoy the protection of family, or are self-financing without family protection as maidservants. In addition, the emigrant believing women who are in the marriage-bond with non-believer husband immediately before migration to Muslim society.
In Arabic, for the Unification-Bond or Contract or Marriage the word is النِّكَاحُ. This is from Root " ن ك ح". The basic perception infolded therein is that of joining and combining in the manner of slumber dissolving in eyes or as the drops of rain absorb in the Earth. This signifies the mutually consented Marriage-Bond, between a man and women, witnessed, endorsed and authenticated by the society, the third party to the agreement-union-bond. This "Union-Bond" grants permission, and renders sanctity of purity, in establishing particular matrimonial relationship, which is otherwise not permissible and is a grave sin if done by a man and woman without the Union-Bond. Like the effect of basic perception of the Root, the romantic look in the eyes caused by gradual dissolving of slumber therein and inciting odor emerging by the absorption of earlier drops of rain on dried land, the Marriage-Bond, النِّكَاحُ , results in romantic attachment between a man and woman. However, there might be situation and a newly wed couple amongst whom this romantic attachment might not be possible, for compelling reasons, may be physical or ideological.
The Grand Qur'aan is a guide that contains instructions and options available to human beings for meeting all situations that might arise during their life. In case the romantic attachment cannot be developed after النِّكَاحُ the recourse is divorce.
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saba2
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Posted - Thursday, April 7, 2011 - 5:21 PM 
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