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tweety
UNITED KINGDOM
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 Topic initiated on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 6:59 PM 
mothers
i think this is a lesson for grownups n kids alike...
When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you. You thanked her by crying all night long.
When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk. You thanked her by running away when she called.
When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love. You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.
When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons. You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.
When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays. You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud.
When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school. You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!"
When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball. You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.
When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream. You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.
When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons. You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.
When you were 10 years old she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastic to one birthday party after another. You thanked her by jumpin out of the car and never looking back.
When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies. You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.
When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.
When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.
When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.
When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.
When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.
When you were 17, she was expecting an important call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night.
When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus carried your bags. You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.
When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone. You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business."
When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you."
When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.
When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment. You
thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.
When you were 24, she met your fiance and asked about your plans
for the future. You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"
When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.
When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby. You thanked her by telling her,"Things are different now."
When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday. You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."
When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You
thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.
And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder on your your heart.
If you love your mom, don't forget to show it. Don't take advantage of her...
Edited by: xxbasxx on Saturday, September 03, 2005 3:33 PM |
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xxbasxx
UNITED KINGDOM
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Posted - Saturday, August 20, 2005 - 11:23 PM 
Salamz.
that's truly thought provoking...
there is a lessson to be learnt here, and again we refer to that every famous hadith: your mother, your mother your mother...for those who havent heard it, it goes a little something like this:
a man came to the Prophet (saw) and said, " Oh my Prophet, my family all resides in my one house. my parents, grandparents, uncles and aunties all live under the same roof. can you please tell me in which order i am to serve them?"
the Prophet (saw) replied, almost instantly, "Your mother." the man thanked him and said, "Who next?" and, again, the Prophet said, "Your mother."
the man, thinking that the Prophet hadnt heard him, asked again: "And after her, oh Prophet?" Again, the Prophet (saw) said, "Your mother." the man looked at the Prophet (saw) and asked, "Yes, Prophet, who after my mother?" The Prophet (saw) smiled and said: "Your duty is first to your mother. And then to your mother. And again, to your mother. And then to your father."
so basically, your mother is the woman you should respect most. and of course, your father too. ^_^ there is another Hadith that goes like this:
a man came to the Prophet (saw) one day and said, "Oh Prophet! i have taken my mother to Hajj and the entire Hajj, i carried her on my shoulders. i suffered this pain for her, oh Prophet... have i fulfilled my duty to her?"
the Prophet (saw) replied, "you have not endured one minutes pain worth of the pain she suffered while giving birth to you...not only this, but you have yet to fulfil your duty to her."
Subhana'Allah...we should think twice about saying something to our moms before saying it! hehe ^_^ .xXx. Wasssalam!
Edited by: xxbasxx on Saturday, August 20, 2005 11:24 PM |
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XXTanyaXX
UNITED KINGDOM
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Posted - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 - 9:53 PM
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xxbasxx
UNITED KINGDOM
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Posted - Friday, October 21, 2005 - 5:01 PM
Salamz Tanya ! welcome to the Young Minds forum - i hope you enjoy yourself and learn something Insha'Allah :D
yeah that was my reaction too when i read it. it made me wanna go and hug my mommy and say sorry for being rude to her whenever i lose my temper.
its a very valuable lesson to learn and we shouldnt just apply it to our moms. our fathers and grandparents and other relatives deserve just as much respect too
.xXx. Basmah .xXx.
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mersi
ALBANIA
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Posted - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 - 11:59 AM
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selam aleykum to you all.
i am expecting a baby and i am very very happy. i think that it is wonderful to be born a girl and then to become a mother.
i hope you will pray for me.
may Allah bless you all.  |
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xxbasxx
UNITED KINGDOM
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Posted - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 - 6:15 PM
Salamz ^_^
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww Masha'Allah thats such great news!
may your baby be a beautiful child who is successful academically and Islamically ^__^
Ameen
.xXx.
Wassalam
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mersi
ALBANIA
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Posted - Monday, December 12, 2005 - 9:20 AM
Salamz ^_^
awww *if you're lucky, your baby girl will grow up to be like me. smart, beautiful and a little vain...hehe!*
i hope she grows up to be a good ickle girl
well theres a website for names... *clik HERE*
Wassalam
.xXx.
Edited by: xxbasxx on Monday, December 12, 2005 1:55 PM |
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xxbasxx
UNITED KINGDOM
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Posted - Monday, December 12, 2005 - 1:57 PM
OH NOOOOO I DID SOMETHING SO DUMB!! INSTEAD OF REPLYING TO YOUR POST I EDITED!! IM SO SORRY!! >_< ughhhh dumb moderator!! sorry, mersi.... *cries* im really sorry ***ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh*
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bilal_sahib
UNITED KINGDOM
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Posted - Monday, December 12, 2005 - 3:12 PM
salams,
some people, eh mersi??
to find arabic names, click here... many congratulations + all the best for your daughter's future!!
remember to putyour name down on the "anyone there" topic if you havent already done so!!
wassalam
bilal
Edited by: bilal_sahib on Monday, December 12, 2005 3:18 PM
Edited by: bilal_sahib on Wednesday, December 14, 2005 10:00 PM |
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mersi
ALBANIA
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Posted - Sunday, December 18, 2005 - 9:51 AM
xxbasxx you are so kind anyway i hope she will.
i had a look at the baby name websites. i found them interesting and i thank you very much. |
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xxbasxx
UNITED KINGDOM
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Posted - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - 5:29 PM
Salamz ^_^ har har i clicked on 'reply' instead of 'modify' this tim
and now i realise i have nothing to say.
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.xXx. Wassalam .xXx. |
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