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The Keep-it-Simple
Rule and Islam
Are God’s expectations from
humans easy to fulfil? If they are, should we not let others do what they
are doing and not get involved in unnecessarily disturbing them by declaring
what they are doing as un-Islamic? Also, should we not let non-Muslims
remain what they are? Isn’t it an unnatural expectation from them to convert
to a completely new religion? If we are expecting non-Muslims to convert,
why shouldn’t Muslims be expected to conform to the truth within their own
faith? Is changing from one religious view to another not difficult? If it
is, how then is Islam easy to follow? Why can’t we follow the Keep-It-Simple
rule in Islam?
God Almighty wants us to
make things easy for us. This is what He has to say: “Allah desires ease for
you; He does not desire hardship for you.” (2:185) The Prophet (sws)
strongly urged his followers to “make things easy and don’t make them
difficult. Give them good news and don’t scare them away.”
However, easiness in religion has to be done in the way the Almighty wants
us to do it. It should not be mistaken for casualness. Here are the outlines
of the easy way, as I understand, the Almighty wants us to follow:
i) One has always got to remain
open to truth. It is only in that way that one acquires true faith. Laziness
in matters of truth is an offence, though hopefully a minor one, but
unjustifiable stubbornness in the matter of truth is an inexcusable crime.
By the latter what I mean is that you refuse to take interest in the truth
simply because you are already attached to some other ideology and you don’t
want a new one to disturb you. In the process of comparing the contestants
for truth, if I am confused, the Almighty would accept it as a valid excuse,
inshā Allah. Ignoring the truth, however, can never be a part of the
otherwise desirable keep-It-simple formula.
ii) There is no Muslim vs
non-Muslim divide in the eyes of God. No one is at a disadvantage in this
trial of life. Muslims are expected to be open to truth quite as much as the
non-Muslims are. Those non-Muslims who know that the message of Islam is
from God and are still spurning it out of arrogance are criminal kāfir (the
condemned disbelievers) in the eyes of their Creator. Likewise is the case
of Muslims who are guilty of a similar crime in any aspect of the truth that
comes from God. So long as a person is confused about whether a certain
message is from God or not, he is not guilty. The ultimate decision on all
such matters will be taken, thankfully, by the All-Knowing God Himself.
iii) In matters of practice, the
rule is that you are expected to follow the truth as much as is possible.
God has promised that His expectations are simple. However, we need to
understand them in order to follow them. That strategy would ensure that
things are kept simple.
iv) In matters of new findings
on religion, science, or any other discipline, we again need to remain open.
Of course, not everyone is interested in everything, but if someone tells me
that what I am doing right now is not acceptable to my God, then I cannot
take it lightly. Even in non-religious matters, once we jump into a
discussion, we have to behave like truth-seeking believers and not like
truth-spurning kāfirs.
v) God Almighty has promised
that He is not going to make any soul accountable for anything more than
what his potential is. He has also promised that He will forgive people who
repent after realizing that what they were doing was wrong and that He will
only punish those who were insisting on a wrong, criminal attitude
knowingly. What better keep-it-simple approach could there be than this?
vi) One of the things I am
expected to do as a good believer is to get involved in the process of
correcting those who are closely linked with me. Likewise, I should allow
others to influence me positively whenever I am going wrong. Such an
attitude of mutual correction is a demonstration of the believers’ concern
for the welfare of each other. In no way does it demonstrate an unnecessary
interference in the affairs of others. In fact, not doing so would be
indicative of a lack of interest in the spiritual and moral welfare of the
other person.
Author:
Dr Khalid Zaheer
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Author
Javed Ahmad
Ghamidi
(Tr. by Shehzad Saleem)
Insurance is a sort of contract for
mutual help in which people pay a fixed amount in installments. The purpose is
that if any of them is inflicted with losses relating to their persons or their
wealth they are compensated from this pooled money in a prescribed manner. The
money given is never returned and all the people or institutes which provide
this service are granted this right by people who enter into this contract of
mutual help with them that in return for this service they can spend the
accumulated money in whatever way they want.
This is an extraordinary scheme
which has been chalked out to compensate losses and to help people in difficult
circumstances. Its benefits are now acknowledged everywhere. After the
termination of the institutions of tribes, fraternities and ‘āqilah, this is the
best substitute for them which contemporary economic systems have provided to
this world. There seem to be no objection against it; however, Islamic scholars
generally regard it to be prohibited. Following are the objections they have
raised against Insurance:
1. The amounts which Insurance
Companies pay to their clients are generally more than the installments their
clients have paid them; this is interest and interest is forbidden in Islam.
Moreover, Insurance Companies further invest this money in interest-based
schemes. Some part of the interest earned by them is also used in paying off
their clients who had bought their insurance policies.
2. Insurance Policy holders
repeatedly receive large sums of money against death, accidents or losses. This
is gambling which is prohibited in the Islamic sharī‘ah.
3. The entity for which an Insurance
Policy is bought does not typically exist; the locus of the contract is also not
ascertained and the Policy holders do not even know the number of installments
and the time till which they will have to pay them. In the terminology of the
jurists these are called gharar (deception), jahālah (ignorance) and ghaban
(embezzlement) respectively in the presence of which no contract is allowable.
The Prophet (sws) has forbidden such deals.
A little deliberation will show that
all these three objections are baseless.
The first of these is not tenable
because the installments paid by an Insurance Policy holder are not loans. They
are given by him for the help and support of others on the condition that he too
could be the recipient. Thus they are never returned. If Insurance institutions
invest them in interest-bearing transactions, it is because they have been given
the right by the policy holders to use them. No responsibility of the nature of
this use rests on the Policy holders. If a person is to receive Insurance money
for the purpose he had bought an Insurance Policy, then as per the contract, he
receives it from the accumulated amount. This is the real nature of Insurance,
and it must be viewed on its basis.
The second of these objections is
not tenable because gambling is a game and a matter of purely chancing one’s
luck. People who buy Insurance Policies do so to become part of a system which
caters for helping one another in case of losses. The nature of the two is
entirely different, and the basis of religious directives is not marginal
similarity between two things; it is and should be based on the actual nature of
the two.
The third of these objections is not
tenable because the directives of the Prophet (sws) related to gharar
(deception), jahālah (ignorance) and ghaban (embezzlement) are not of the nature
of an absolute prohibition: they are meant to resolve disputes and to close the
door to ways which may result in these evils in cases of financial transactions.
Insurance, however, is not a financial transaction. It is a scheme which relates
to mutual help. It is executed and managed by individuals and institutions who
are given the right to use the accumulated money in return for the service they
provide. It is not appropriate at all to judge it by ignoring the nature of this
scheme.
(Translated from Maqāmāt by Shehzad
Saleem)
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Discussion Forum: Family and Marriage: Core Issues
Topic: Dowery
Esaiyed
I
would like to know if dowry needs to be paid in full before marriage or it
can be settled after marriage.
Student Affairs
Depends what the bride wants, because it's a
gift to her from the groom. However it should have been offered by the groom
and the amount clearly mentioned and documented at the time of the nikah/marriage
contract because it has been described as an obligation of the marriage
contract in Qur'an; (the purpose of the dowry is to represent the importance
and seriousness of this life time contract)
saba2
What about the dowry system in Indo Pak sub-continent?
The girl's family provides the boy with everything which they can afford
starting from crockery to furniture car house etc. Isn't this practice un
Islamic?
ibrahim
Sister, of course this is un Islamic but unfortunately we've to live with it
and have to tackle this issue very wisely.
It must be clear that Dowry (Mahr) is something
else and as has been described above that it's an obligatory thing.
It's not compulsory to be paid in full before
marriage but as said earlier it must be settled before Nikah ceremony.
However, at any time, wife can leave it partially or fully by her own will
or she can return it as much as she wants to if she has already received it.
faysal99
I
have my concern on "Mahr".
When religion binds men to be fully responsible
for "Economics" after marriage bond, it is obvious in this directive, that,
women rule in economics or financial matters of society is limited or
Non-existent. And men are the sole runner of finance or economics.
The trend has changed now in modern times.
Women have now equal opportunities not only for
technical education (which lead to highly money oriented Professions) but
are also occupying hundred of thousands jobs, replacing men.
Earning opportunities have scared for men and
it is resulting delayed marriages and other imbalances in society.
Therefore Under such conditions, it is not
justified to ask men for "Mahr" or to declare them to be Wholly responsible
for Financial matters after marriage.
saba2
Faysal your concern is justified, women have started working and getting
good education and doing better than boys sometimes, but how many get there?
Very few and how many actually work even fewer. The point is the Mahr which
has to be paid to the girl in our society is not paid in most cases ever it
is a ritual that it is written in our Nikahnama but in practices how many
men actually pay it? Then there is the stipulation that women can take it in
installments or leave it, or as pointed out even return it. I think it is an
obligation for men to take their responsibility seriously and understand
what marriage means.
ibrahim
Dear faysal, besides that please also note that despite all these changes
that you've mentioned and as correctly described by Saba that by percentage
such cases are still in minority. The real point that must be appreciated by
all Islamic social laws is that Islam wants strong base of a Family Units.
That's why by asking man to take the financial responsibilities Allah has
given him a leading role in the family and has told us that what must be the
roles of the husbands & wife's in the society.
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Understanding each Other
In Pakistan we
live in constant fear, violence is on the rise intolerance and isolation of
factions is leading to more and more to misunderstanding. Is this going to be
our legacy to our children? Will they be always looking over their shoulder?
Why cant we talk to each other accept each others' point of view, can all
people come together express their point of view without fear on this forum.
My first question
Pakistan was created for Muslims to practice Islam and live without fear.
Whose version of Islam? and are we living without fear?
..........Whose version of Islam?.........
Of course the version of the
One who named us Muslims.
The term Muslim
signifies "one who surrenders himself to God"; correspondingly, Islam denotes
"self-surrender to God". Both these terms are applied in the Qur’an to all who
believe in the One God and affirm this belief by an unequivocal acceptance of
His revealed messages. Since the Qur’an represents the final and most
universal of these divine revelations, the believers are called upon to follow
the guidance of its Apostle and thus to become an example for all mankind
The religion of
Islam is:
(1)free of any
dogma or mystical proposition which might make the Qur'anic doctrine difficult
to understand or might even conflict with man’s innate reason;
(2) it avoids all
complicated ritual or system of taboos which would impose undue restrictions
on mans everyday life;
(3) it rejects
all self-mortification and exaggerated asceticism, which must unavoidably
conflict with mans true nature and
(4) it takes
fully into account the fact that "man has been created weak’’ (4:28).
Al-Hajj (The
Pilgrimage)
22:78
وَجَاهِدُوا فِي اللَّهِ
حَقَّ جِهَادِهِ هُوَ اجْتَبَاكُمْ وَمَا جَعَلَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ مِنْ
حَرَجٍ مِّلَّةَ أَبِيكُمْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ هُوَ سَمَّاكُمُ الْمُسْلِمينَ مِن
قَبْلُ
وَفِي هَذَا لِيَكُونَ الرَّسُولُ شَهِيدًا عَلَيْكُمْ وَتَكُونُوا شُهَدَاء
عَلَى
النَّاسِ فَأَقِيمُوا الصَّلَاةَ وَآتُوا الزَّكَاةَ وَاعْتَصِمُوا بِاللَّهِ
هُوَ
مَوْلَاكُمْ فَنِعْمَ الْمَوْلَى وَنِعْمَ النَّصِيرُ
And strive in His
cause as ye ought to strive, (with sincerity and under discipline).
He has chosen
you, and has imposed no difficulties on you in religion; it is the cult of
your father Abraham.
It is He Who has
named you Muslims, both before and in this (Revelation); that the Messenger
may be a witness for you, and ye be witnesses for mankind!
So establish
regular Prayer, give regular Charity, and hold fast to Allah.
He is your
Protector - the Best to protect and the Best to help!
hkhan (Moderator)
"Why cant we talk to each
other accept each others' point of view, can all people come together express
their point of view without fear on this forum."
Welcome to SI forums saba2
with salam (peace) Of course you can express your point of view without fear
on this forum so go ahead please.
saba2
Thank you for the
warm welcome Hina.
when I said whose
version of Islam I meant whose interpretation , which sect and I disagree
Islam is not a difficult religion to follow its basis is on our niyat and our
instinct of judgment of deciding right and wrong.
It takes man as a
social being and lays its laws which are fair to all.
The problem is
when different sects interpret and insist their interpretation is right and
willing to take each other's lives for it.
Suicide bombings
killing of women attacks on minorities has given rise to fear and the policy
of submission because you have no choice, or mass migration if you have one.
What happened to
laying basic principles and then leaving the rest to the people? Quran leaves
according to me a lot of grey areas where the judgment is left to individuals
why should we impose our interpretation on the rest.
Every day things
have become a strain on our lives. Listening to music, if you are a music
lover should you hide that fact? Because maybe your neighbor might not agree
with it and react to it in a very unpleasant manner. The way women dress when
going outside or dealing with people in offices or any jobs, do they wear
hijab ?cover their face ? a coat on their dress ? a chader? or just plain
dress with head uncovered short sleeves or long ones? Does an Islamic state
have a right to dictate a dress to a woman or a man? Should it not be a choice
of an individual? We are all going to be judged by God on the day of Judgment
so why are we insistent on judging in this life time. All states have Civil
laws to judge criminal offences so should we in Islamic perspective but
keeping a medium path.
God has given us
the right to choose our lives' path and given us guidelines to decide whether
we are choosing the right path or the wrong one. All human beings have the
right to earn a lawful earning education and a right to choose your husband or
wife.
If we fulfill
these responsibilities and protect the innocent and weak from aggression then
we are half way there to a better life and maybe in the eyes of God better
human beings.
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Why Should Men head a
Family?
Question:
According to
the Qur'ān, husbands are the guardians of their wives. Why is that so? Why
should they head a family?
Answer:
Men and women are the two building
blocks of the smallest unit of the society: the family. The Almighty has made
them such that they complement one another. In other words, they are not
duplicates of one another; they are different from each other. By complement is
meant that they complete certain voids present in each other. This also is
precisely why they need one another to form a family. The Qur’ān says that for a
healthy society, both sexes should acknowledge each other's inborn qualities and
characteristics and not become jealous:
And in no way covet those things in which Allah has bestowed you His gifts more
freely on some of you than on others: Men shall be given a share from what they
earn and women shall be given a share from what they earn, and ask Allah of His
bounty. For Allah has full knowledge of all things. (4:32)
In other words, what the Qur’ān is implying here is that the real sphere of
competition is not natural abilities for they have been bestowed by the
Almighty; it is the sphere in which one uses these abilities to earn for one’s
self some reward in the Hereafter in which men and women should strive and
compete with each other.
After spelling out the correct attitude in this regard, the Qur’ān, goes on to
say:
Men are the guardians of women because Allah has given one superiority over the
other and because they [--- men ---] support them from their means. (4:34)
According to this verse, men are more suited to head a family because of the
fact that they are physically and temperamentally more suited. This suitability
has been ingrained in their nature by the Almighty. Their physical strength and
mental disposition make them more appropriate of the two to carry out this
responsibility. The word qawwām (guardian) combines in it the concepts of
physical protection and moral responsibility.
The second reason pointed out by this verse for this choice is that on a man
lies the responsibility of earning for his wife and children. It is but natural
for one who financially maintains and looks after the individuals entrusted to
him to be at the helm of their affairs. In this regard, however, it must remain
clear that Islam does not forbid women to earn a living. It has only freed them
from the responsibility of earning, which lies upon men. It also needs to be
understood that the verse does not say that the one among the husband or wife
who supports the family should become the head;. husbands, whether their wives
earn or not, are liable for this responsibility. A women may earn if she likes
or if some need arises, but since she has not been entrusted with this duty she
has not been given the governing position in the family.
The verse, it should remain in consideration, very clearly states that men's
superiority to women is not absolute; it is only relative and confined to
certain spheres. Consequently, there are certain spheres in which women by
nature -- physical, physiological as well as psychological -- are far superior
to men and much more suitable to do certain tasks.
wassalam
Dr Shehzad Saleem
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