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And Two become
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"Marriage combines the maximum of temptation with the
maximum of opportunity" - who was the originator of this truism I wonder?
The latter years of the 19th Century saw a fashionable preoccupation with death
- there was a great deal of speculation concerning our demise. Probably it
accompanied an involvement with a more prevalent religious belief; certainly our
immediate forbears were more aware of the spiritual dimension of our existence
than we are.
Today we prefer not to discuss those things that relate to our end and this has
been replaced by what amounts to an obsession with that which leads to our
conception - something our grandparents didn’t dwell on. Not merely practising
it – (always popular), but reading, talking, hearing, writing about it. Women's
magazines no longer restrict themselves to recipes and knitting patterns!
Whilst death and religion are usually seen to be associated, this 'it' seldom is
– though not apparently falling into the domain of 'religion', the whole
business is inextricably linked. The aim of this short article is to consider
this 'it', this thing God has granted us, from the divine standpoint and thereby
set it in its true perspective; 'fleshly delights' is an appropriate appellation
and is close in sentiment to the open eroticism of the 'Song of Songs' which is
attributed to Solomon - it is close also to what God has in mind for us.
Comfort and security is obtained through our faith in Christ and clearly,
through the intimate, loving and lifelong union which marriage provides, God is
offering us something that is 'worth writing home about'. The modern marriage
service suggests something wonderful when it speaks of '....the joy of their
bodily union'. It follows that if we fall in with God's plan, comfort and
security will also be derived from what becomes a readily attainable physical
event. This is its purpose. A loving husband and wife can anticipate this in
turning to each other. It is giving. The Christian faith is one of giving, and
it naturally follows that marriage, because it is ordained by God (Gen.2:21),
will follow this pattern. Each is providing for the other's needs.
To speak of 'joy' though, smacks of the ecclesiastical - it is a biblical word,
whereas Christian marriage, which is a frolicsome thing, as well as a coming
together for the purpose of procreation, is 'fun' - a rather unbiblical word!
"Be fruitful and increase" (Gen. 1:28) - we don’t need a great deal of
encouragement do we? God in his wisdom has created something which was bound to
'catch on' - a drive to which we could not but succumb.
"Sons are a gift from the Lord and children a reward from him.......Happy is he
who has his quiver full of them" (Ps 127:5). Though, for some, a quiverfull might
seem excessive!
So it is that our offspring are conceived of love and they grow up knowing love.
Usually condemned on moral grounds, promiscuity can be perceived as a mere
clutching at straws, an answer only to a biological need, a desperate but
unsatisfactory solution to an emotional problem - the difference between grazing
and sitting down to a three course meal. Where an illicit relationship is
fruitful, a tragic tangle of relationships might result with sad repercussions
for the hapless progeny.
Sex, then, is not to be taken lightly. It is important; it is essential; it is
sacred; and as such it is to be cherished, revered and retained within marriage.
Although the sexual union is deemed to be the closest one possible, it should be
recognised that the spiritual union that is achievable between the individual
and Christ is much closer. The term 'fellowship' seems hardly adequate to
describe this, the ultimate individual relationship. Whereas the one is merely
earthly, that with Jesus is heavenly.
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Belief in the Hereafter
Author
Javed Ahmad
Ghamidi
(Tr. by Shehzad Saleem)
إِذَا زُلْزِلَتْ الْأَرْضُ زِلْزَالَهَا
وَأَخْرَجَتْ الْأَرْضُ أَثْقَالَهَا
وَقَالَ الْإِنسَانُ مَا لَهَا
يَوْمَئِذٍ تُحَدِّثُ أَخْبَارَهَا بِأَنَّ رَبَّكَ أَوْحَى لَهَا يَوْمَئِذٍ
يَصْدُرُ النَّاسُ أَشْتَاتًا لِيُرَوْا أَعْمَالَهُمْ فَمَنْ يَعْمَلْ مِثْقَالَ
ذَرَّةٍ خَيْرًا يَرَه وَمَنْ يَعْمَلْ مِثْقَالَ
ذَرَّةٍ شَرًّا يَرَه ( ٩٩:
١-٨)
[They should remember the Day] when the earth is shaken
the way it should be shaken, and it casts forth its burdens. And man cries out:
“What is the matter with her?” On that Day, she will narrate all her story at
the intimation of your Lord. On that Day, men will issue forth individually so
that their deeds can be shown to them. Then whoever has done the smallest bit of
good he also shall see it, and whoever has done the smallest bit of evil, he
also shall see it. (99:1-8)
Belief in the Hereafter is one of the most important tenets
of Islam. It occupies the central position in the preaching mission of prophets.
It is on the foundation of this belief that the pillars of sharī‘ah, virtue and
righteousness stand. Prophethood is also based on it. A nabī (prophet) is a nabī
because he actually foretells this nabā’ azīm (great news).
[1]
A rasūl (messenger) is a rasūl because he brings the message of its advent. John
(sws) and Jesus (sws), Moses (sws) and Abraham (sws) all have proclaimed it. The
Torah tacitly refers to it and the Psalms clearly mentions it. In the Gospel,
Jesus (sws) has warned that on the Day of Judgement only those people will enter
the Kingdom of Heaven who will please his father in heaven. The Qur’ān is a
bearer of warning and glad tidings for this Day. It says that the manner in
which people wake up from sleep (39:42), the manner in which rain enlivens a
dead and desolate terrain (7:57; 35:9), the manner in which a whole human being
comes into existence from a mere drop of water (75:3-40), in the same manner
mankind will be made to rise one day from their graves. Raising up mankind on
that Day would not be of any bother for the Almighty. When the addressees of the
Qur’ān expressed their wonder on being re-created and inquired after the being
who would enliven these decayed bones, the Almighty replied in the Qur’ān
(36:78) that the very being Who created them the first time would create them
again. This whole process is as easy for Him as uttering a word for us is:
فَوَرَبِّ السَّمَاء وَالْأَرْضِ إِنَّهُ لَحَقٌّ مِّثْلَ مَا
أَنَّكُمْ تَنطِقُونَ ( ٥١:
٢٣)
I swear by the Lord of heaven and earth that this shall
definitely come [with the same ease] as you speak. (51:23)
The Qur’ān says that it is man’s own nature, his quest for
justice and his awareness of good and evil that requires the coming of a Day of
Judgement. If God is just and fair then such a day must come. His providence,
mercy, power and wisdom as well as His laws and practices all entail that man
face a day of accountability. Without belief in such a day, religion is mere
wishful thinking. The concepts of virtue, piety, justice, reward and punishment
become baseless. Without such a day, the universe has no purpose and can only be
regarded as the play place of divine forces.
The testimonies, indications, sites and events of this day
are described both in the Qur’ān and the Hadīth. In the following paragraphs,
these details are mentioned.
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Discussion Forum: Family and Marriage: Core Issues
Haq of Parents
sanaa_ahmed:
After
marriage...what is the status of a womans parents n the in-laws..... I mean
since parents are the most revered after ALLAH....what should b the status given
to a girls parents after she is been married off.....if ever such circumstances
occur where she finds contrary views among her parents n in-laws. with whom
should her loyalties lie.....
Also if a woman
chooses not to stay with her in-laws n stay in a separate establishment is she
at fault???
ibrahim:
wa alaikum us
salam dear sister in Islam
The status of the parents does not change much after the girl's marriage. As she
goes away from her parents' house after the marriage, so naturally she is felt
less responsible towards them as compare to her brothers. Nevertheless if her
parents are really in need of her services, then her husband should play a major
part in this situation & be kind enough to release her to serve her parents at
their residence or bring them to his home if needed for the said purpose.
In circumstances where she finds contrary views among her parents n in-laws then
she should try explain to everyone that on what grounds she is for or against
any views.
Q. Also if a woman chooses not to stay with her in-laws n stay in a separate
establishment is she at fault???
A. If she does so then despite the fact that she has the right to do so, it
should be a decision of the whole family; wife, husbands & in-laws & not solely
of the wife. The physical conditions of the husband's parents should also be
given a due consideration.
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Discussion Forum: Family and Marriage: Core Issues
Shariah Ruling
sanaa_ahmed
After
marriage...what is the status of a womans parents n the in-laws..... I mean
since parents are the most revered after ALLAH....what should b the status given
to a girls parents after she is been married off.....if ever such circumstances
occur where she finds contrary views among her parents n in-laws.. with whom
should her loyalties lie.....
Also if a woman chooses not to stay with her in-laws n stay in a separate
establishment is she at fault???
ibrahim
The status of
the parents does not change much after the girl's marriage. As she goes away
from her parents' house after the marriage, so naturally she is felt less
responsible towards them as compare to her brothers. Nevertheless if her parents
are really in need of her services, then her husband should play a major part in
this situation & be kind enough to release her to serve her parents at their
residence or bring them to his home if needed for the said purpose.
In circumstances where she finds contrary views among her parents n in-laws then
she should try explain to everyone that on what grounds she is for or against
any views.
Q. Also if a woman chooses not to stay with her in-laws n stay in a separate
establishment is she at fault???
A. If she does so then despite the fact that she has the right to do so, it
should be a decision of the whole family; wife, husbands & in-laws & not solely
of the wife. The physical conditions of the husband's parents should also be
given a due consideration.
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Discussion Forum:
Terrorist vs Terrorism
According to British
writer and lecturer, Karen Armstrong, the west is deeply Islamophobic and the
Islamophobia is the result of a long process of prejudice, dating back to the
Crusades. The recent events have strengthened the prejudiced belief that “Islam
is the religion of the sword”. Islamophobia can manifest itself directly in
verbal or physical attacks on Muslims but also indirectly in negative images of
Muslims presented by the media. Islamophobia was worsened by anti-Islamic
policies, publications and activities in Europe and the US. Islamophobia is not
only a cause of discrimination against Muslims but also an open threat to world
peace. The western media and intellectuals play a significant role in spreading
Islamophobia. Hate-mongers have come out of the woodworks in full force. Now,
not a day passes without the newspapers, magazines, radio and TV talk shows,
Hollywood movies, computer games and even children’s cartoons and the myriad of
internet websites and chat rooms, attacking Islam and Muslims. Muslim
communities in the western world and its so called leaders have taken the
Ostrich-approach. They have buried their heads in the sand hoping the problems
would go away. It is not going to go away. The neck of the Ostrich will be cut.
Entire Muslim communities living in the west are under attack. According to a
survey, 70% of Americans do not want to see Muslims living in their
neighborhood. There is not a single day when Islam and Muslims are not attacked
by the mainstream news media outlets. Muslims are referred barbarians who must
either be civilised or banished before they pollute the egalitarian societies in
which they were born or now live. According to a survey in Scotland, half of
Scots see Muslims as a ‘cultural threat’. Scotland would lose its identity if
more Muslims went to live there. According to DEMOS, British public is more
worried about violent crime and immigration, but the British establishment has
focused too heavily on terrorism.
Masajid and Muslim organizations are regarded as
training centers for terrorists. Thousands of innocent Muslim youths are being
searched in streets and hundreds of them are behind the bar with out any trial.
No religion advocates terrorism. However, West has directed its anger against
Islam and Muslims by inventing Islamic Terrorism. It is the western extremism
which is portraying Islam as an evil. It is the extremism in France, Turkey and
other European countries where Muslim women are not allowed to cover their
heads. Now the Turkish education chief wants headscarf ban lifted. In Britain,
there is a social and economic pressure on Muslim women not to cover their
heads. Despite international outrage and the US authorities’ own stated wish to
close Camp Guantanamo is still holding detainees illegally… in cruel, inhuman
and degrading conditions.
There is an undeclared World War III going on in
the name of War on Terrorism. The fact of the matter is that Islam is all peace
and hence this war is war of terrorism and not against terrorism. Deception and
lies are frequently part of the wars and with powerful Hollywood film tools and
other media communications devices people of the world are thoroughly fooled,
deceived and made confused. The war in Iraq and Afghanistan is an unmitigated
disaster that had brought the west generally into disrepute. Inter Milan, the
Italian foot-ball team played with an Istanbul team, wearing a strip with
“Crusader-Style” red crosses which is offensive to Muslims. The red-cross brings
to mind one thing: the symbol of the “Templar Knights”. The cross also
symbolised “western racist superiority over Islam”. Inter Milan had manifested
in the most explicit manner the superiority of one religion over another. Many
EU countries are against Turkey joining EU on the ground that majority of Turks
are Muslims with secular constitution. Widespread ignorance and Right-wing
groups is the main culprit behind the demonized image of Islam in the west.
Islamophobic west has become politically motivated. Western media and
politicians are portraying Muslims as “satanic figures”. A recent British study
has found that a torrent of negative and imbalance stories in the British media
demonize the sizeable Muslim minority and their faith by spreading prejudices
and portraying them as the enemy within. Many people in the west, including
researchers and those working in the media, unintentionally provide a blemished
image of Islam because they are ignorant about Islam and Muslims. The
republication of Danish cartoons clearly shows the prevalent ignorance about
Islam. The United Nation wanted to introduce a universal law to protect Muslims
from Islamophobia, which is spreading like wildfire, but the so-called civilised
western establishments, voted against it. It is the fundamental duty of Muslims
settled in the west to raise awareness of the spirit and core of Islam.
One by one all Muslim Organizations are going to be
classified as ‘Terrorists’. BBC Newsnight has already branded world Assembly of
Muslim Youth (WAMY) as terrorist. According to TES, dated 1st Feb2002, Muslim
teacher’s website has been condemned for links to militant Islamic groups. It is
absurd to brand Muslim teachers website as a terrorist. Its aim is to provide
guidance, share experience and discuss every day issues and problems facing
Muslim teachers. It is also going to help British teachers to learn to respect
and understand Islamic culture and most misunderstood British Muslim community.
Racism in schools is alive and well was recognized by the Focus Institute on
Rights. Staff in many schools is unwittingly racist but in my view, all British
teachers are chicken racist. Racism is rife in National Curriculum. There is no
mention of Muslim contribution in the world. Schools reinforce the racism that
has been promulgated for centuries. The curriculum is supposed to encourage
respect for different nationals, religious and ethnic identities and encourage
pupils to challenge injustice. A report on teachers from the minority
communities found that racism coupled with a lack of support and career
progression is holding some back. Even teacher trainees were encountering racism
at placement schools. They would like to discuss their worries more, but only if
the senior management team was visibly open and supportive. The management at
schools was very defensive about any mention of racism, so the issue could not
be discussed in any meaningful way. If a teacher in English school calls a teddy
bear Jesus Christ, there would be seriously hostile comments in much of the
media. While in Sudan a British teacher was tried and imprisoned for insulting
Islam for fifteen days but was pardoned by the President and released after
eight days. She said after her release that she encountered nothing but kindness
and generosity from Sudanese people. She was treated well in a Government Villa
instead of a prison cell. She could have been imprisoned for six months and
forty lashes. It is a fact that British teachers have no respect for Islamic
faith and subsequently Muslim community, according to research by the University
of Derby.
All the Masajid and Muslim organizations are there
for humanitarian, educational and youth works. None of them promotes acts of
terrorism or support so called Islamic Terrorism. They are busy in those aspects
of education, which are neglected by state schools. They satisfy the needs and
demands of the Muslim children and teenagers, which were denied by state schools
and LEAs. Without their support and guidance the young generation of Muslim
would have lost its Islamic Identity crucial for mental, emotional and
personality development. Their contribution will be more effective if all Muslim
pupils attend Muslim schools with Muslim teachers. It will help to develop
positive co-relation between school and home resulting in raising the standard
of education of future Muslim generations. For this purpose, I have a
proposition that those state schools where Muslim pupils are in majority may be
designated as Muslim Community Schools, managed and controlled by Muslim
Educational Trusts and Charities. They are in a better position to educate
Muslim children according to their needs and demands. A study by the National
Foundation for Educational Research confirmed that all faith schools had better
results than their secular counterparts. Conservative spokesman on education has
praised schools affiliated to religious groups, saying Muslim schools deserved
“support” not suspicion.
student1
It is true brother
because their are extremist elements in the US and UK government that hate Islam
and their aim is to misguide the people of the West about Islam because they are
scared that one day this religion will take over their countries and their
position will be in danger.
This same "Islam" is the one that brought positive
changes in the world during Medival Times and showed a new direction to the
world and now this unfortunate religion is under attack.
One of the main problems is that we should work on
our side to promote the true teachings of Islam and should convince Westerns and
explain them the true teachings of Islam.
Let me tell you brother, West has the potention to
convert to Islam but all we need is to become a symbol of Islam for them because
they themselves are fed-up of their corrupt and free society and offcourse they
are looking for solutions and Islam is the only solution for them.
Don't think that all the Westerns are against Islam
,their are many sensible people who know about Islam and do not believe what
their media propagates about Islam.
imran776 (Moderator)
If we leave aside
these westerners, even we Pakistanis including myself are moved by the current
situation in Pakistan.
Leaving aside all the outside/foreign elements we
need to bring our house in order first and everything will be all right
inshallah.
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Women Praying at Home
Question asked by
Anonymous.
Posted on: Tuesday, April
15, 2008 - Hits: 3
Question:
There is a hadith which
says that it is better for women to pray at home. However, another one says that
the reward for praying in the mosque is 27 times greater. So I'm confused? Is it
really better for a woman to pray at home?
Please explain:
Answer:
Unlike men, women have been
put under less burden as far as directives and decrees of Islam are concerned.
For example, they have been exempted from Jihad. Similarly, they have been
exempted from the Friday congregation. Likewise, they have also been relieved of
the responsibility to appear in the mosque for the daily prayers. All this is
because of their circumstances, temperament and line of activities. At the same
time, Muslim men have been directed to let their wives go to the mosque in case
they want to and never to stop them. So, in other words, they can pray at home
without bothering about losing any reward and at the same time if their
circumstances are such that they can easily and safely go to the mosque, no one
should stop them.
regards
Shehzad Saleem
http://www.studying-islam.org/querytext.aspx?id=699
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