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1st Dhu Al-Hijjah Shawwal 1430AH
Assalamu 'Alaikum waRahmatullahi waBarakatuh
All Praise Belongs to Allah (swt), and May the Salah and Salam of Allah (swt) be
upon our beloved Messenger
صلى الله عليه وسلم
Dhul-Hijjah is less than a day away, let us spend the remaining days to plan our
ibadaah for these blessed days that are about to approach us.
Inshaa Allah, November 18 ( Next Wednesday ) will be the first day of the Hijri
month of “Dhul Hijjah”
Below is a transcription of a lecture on how to benefit from the blessed days of
Dhul-Hijjah by Umm ‘Abdur-Rahmân. May Allâh reward the sister who transcribed
the lecture, with the best in this world and next, ameen. Insha’Allah the
information below will help.
“By the ten nights.” [Al-Fajr 89:2]
The “ten nights” which Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] is swearing by here, are the
first 10 days of Dhul-Hijjah.  Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] swears an oath by
them, and swearing an oath by something is indicative of its importance and
Ibn ‘Abbâs [radi Allâhu ‘anhu] narrated that Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa
sallam] said: “There is no deed more precious in the sight of Allâh, or greater
in reward, than a good deed done during the ten days of Sacrifice.” He was
asked: “Not even jihâd for the sake of Allâh?” He said: “Not even jihâd for the
sake of Allâh, except in the case of a man who went out to fight giving himself
and his wealth up for the cause, and came back with nothing.” 
So, my sisters take note of the following:
Have the intention to spread this important information.
It is a great chance to collect uncountable hasanât . It is a great chance to
renew your relation with Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ]. Prepare now so you can start
from the first night/day of the month [i.e. as soon as Dhul-Hijjah is
announced]. You don’t want to miss a moment of the best days in the sight of
Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ].
Since the Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] referred to the 10 days of
Dhul-Hijjah as: “…no days better than these days in the sight of Allâh.” ,
the scholars have said that these are better than Ramadan.  Therefore, be
very vigilant and don’t waste these precious moments. Ask Allâh to help you to
benefit from this period of His special Grace.
Ask yourself these questions [non-rhetorical]:
Did you intend to benefit from these days?
What have you done to prepare for these 10 days?
Did you prepare a program?
What is your plan of action?
Here is a brief guide to help you to prepare for the best days of the year
[inspired by a lecture by Shaykh Muhammad Hassan Yâqûb]:
Read the Qur’ân:
Plan to complete the reading of the Qur’ân within this period.
If you read three juz a day, it can be accomplished. It is not difficult. Ask
Allâh to make it easy for you. We know reciting one letter is equal to ten
hasanât . If you read three juz everyday, it translates to thousands of millions
Subhâna’Allâh! And this calculation is just based on the 1=10 ratio. These are
special days of His Grace. Therefore, don’t even think about how much Allâh
can/will increase & add it for you. You cannot fathom it. He is Kareem. He knows
that you have ikhlâs ; He will not count it as 1=10. He could raise it to 1=700
or even more. And this is what you can earn every day of these special days.
Keep in mind that reciting the Qur’ân is a good deed and Allâh specially loves
the good deeds done in these days: “And if He [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] loves the good
deeds, He will love the doer of those good deeds.”  If Allâh loves someone,
He will not punish them. Remember this concept so that the deeds you do come
from your heart [don’t be like a machine]. Honour the rights of the Qur’ân when
Increase in Nawâfil Prayers:
Increase your supererogatory prayers.
Ask yourself these questions and make sure that your heart gives you sincere
Do you have an aim?
Do you really want to be closer to Allâh?
Do you live with this craving?
Do you really love Allâh and seek His closeness?
If, you want this, then know that Allâh teaches you the means to gaining His
“Fall prostrate and draw near to Allâh!” [Al-Alaq 96:19]
This is the way! Prostrate in sujûd to Him [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] and you will be
closer to Him. The Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] said: “The closest
that a person is to his Lord is when he is prostrating, so say a great deal of
du’â then.”  He [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] is commanding us to make a
lot of du’â while in sujûd. Are we obeying his order? Yes? We need to do more.
For he [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] said to: “…make lots of du’â.” Remember,
the Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] loved us and he knew that we have a
lot of needs from Allâh. This is why he taught us the way to get those needs
fulfilled. Therefore, if you have needs, then you cannot leave sujûd. Any sajdah
without khushû’ & without du’â is a big khasâra . Let us not be losers from now
When the Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] instructed us to do a lot of
sujûd, it means to perform a lot of salâh . “With each sajdah for Allâh, He will
raise you a level with it. And cancel a sin with it.” So, the more you increase
in your sujûd, the closer you are to being a winner.
Examples for increasing nawâfil salâh :
a] Salât Dhuha: Also known as al-Awwâbeen, may be offered as 2, 4, 6 or 8 rak’ât,
prayed after the sun has risen and before the time for Dhuhr approaches. 
“Al-Awwâb’ means one who is obedient, or one who turns to obedience. Bi-idhnillâh,
we want to show Allâh that we are of those who are obedient.
b] 4 rak’ât before and 4 after Dhuhr: “Whoever regularly performs four rak’ât
before Dhuhr and four after it, Allâh will forbid him to the Fire.” 
c] 4 rak’ât before ‘Asr – The Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] said: “May
Allâh have mercy on those who pray four rak’ât before ‘Asr prayer.”  Bi-idhnillâh,
you stand to gain the mercy of Allâh because of the du’â of Prophet [sall-Allâhu
‘alayhi wa sallam]. Do you want the mercy of Allâh to reach you? Don’t leave
these 4 rak’ât.
d] Tahhiyatul masjid: Greet the masjid with two rak’ât: “If any one of you
enters a mosque, he should pray two rak’ât before sitting.” 
e] Salât at-Tawbah: It could be any bad deed, any sin, you hear something bad ,
you see something bad, you feel your heart constricted because of something you
have done and you didn’t mean it, etc, you can erase it immediately with your
prayer of repentance. Make a good wudhû’ and offer two sincere rak’ât of
repentance. Ask Allâh to forgive you. If it’s from your heart, then know that
Allâh will cancel your sin.
g] Qiyâm al-Layl: With this prayer, we hope that Allâh will illuminate our
graves; will bestow nûr on our faces; will cancel our bad deeds, bi-idhnillâh.
Pray at least 2 rak’ât. If you are able to follow the Sunnah, then pray all 11
Remember that in these special days and nights, Allâh is sending His special
mercy. Do you think that this special mercy will reach everybody? Do you think
that it will reach the one who is in front of the TV watching a movie? Or
listening to music? Or do you think it will reach the one who is making sujûd,
rukû’, tilâwah, making istighfâr, etc.?
We have to show Allâh that we want this special mercy. We need to make ourselves
eligible for it.
Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] swears by the night [Sûrah Fajr]. Therefore, take care
of the nights. Don’t be among the losers. Write this in bold and make it your
motivational factor for the special days: “We won’t be among the losers!”
Remember: “Our Lord, may He be blessed and exalted, comes down to the lowest
heaven every night when the last third of the night is left, and He says: ‘Who
will call upon Me, that I may answer him? Who will ask of Me, that I may give
him? Who will ask Me for forgiveness, that I may forgive him?’.”  And, now
that it is winter, we get really long nights. So it’s a good chance to maximise
our hasanât. Don’t forget while you are praying qiyâm that Allâh [subhâna wa
ta’âlâ] Loves this deed. Therefore, He [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] loves the doer of
this deed also.
If we were lazy before, we will be active and good from now on bi-idhnillâh. We
will not be among the losers. If these days and nights are a king who is
distributing gifts of gold while announcing: “Come take these gold nuggets”,
wAllâhi, you will find people standing in long queues and hordes to collect
them. Subhâna’Allâh, Allâh is spreading mercy during these days. He [subhâna wa
ta’âlâ] is accepting supplications. He [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] is offering
unimaginably wonderful blessings that we don’t even know of. So will we not work
to get in those lines to gather Allâh’s gifts?
Makes lots of Dhikr:
Do a lot of dhikr, especially in these days.
“There are no days greater in the sight of Allâh…” 
So what did the Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] tell us to do in these
days? That, we need to make the dhikr of tahlîl, tahmîd & takbîr.  As soon
as the announcement of Dhul-Hijjah is made, start your dhikr:
“Allâhu Akbâr, Allâhu Akbâr, lâ ilâha ill-Allâh, Wallâhu Akbâr. Walilâhilhamd.”
Many people mistakenly believe that you chant this only on the day of ‘Îd. But,
it is meant to be recited from the beginning of Dhul-Hijjah. Bukhârî related
that Ibn ‘Umar & Abu Hurayrah said that they used to go out in the streets
making loud takbîr. They did not think that this was riyâ . They were busy with
declaring the [signs of Allâh. This practice has now become a forgotten Sunnah.
Why do people feel shy to follow this Sunnah? These are the days of takbîr,
tahlîl & tahmîd with raised voices.
Therefore revive this Sunnah by doing audible tasbîh during all of the ten days
For women, when you are in your homes, raise your voices. You will remind your
children, husbands, brothers, etc. Make it like a habit so that you will find
yourself doing dhikr automatically. While walking, reclining, working, eating,
just keep doing dhikr.
Send a lot of blessings and salâm upon the Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa
sallam] consistently. Just one hadîth should be enough for the believer who
loves Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam]. It is enough honour that when you
send your salâm to Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam], Allâh returns his
soul to him in order to answer you: “There is no one who sends salâm upon me but
Allâh will restore to me my soul so that I may return his salâm.” 
Therefore, send your darûd & salâm from your heart. Feel that special honour in
doing that deed.
All kinds of dhikr will make your relation with Allâh stronger and stronger. How
many Muslim’s are there today? 1.5 billion? In one minute it is possible to gain
1.5 billion hasanât. Allâhu Akbâr! How generous is Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ]. No
one will give you like Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] gives. So how can you gain 1.5
million hasanât? By making istighfâr for all Muslim’s. The Prophet [sall-Allâhu
‘alayhi wa sallam] is reported to have said that when a person seeks forgiveness
for all believers, Allâh will write for him a hasanât for every one of those
believers.  Just say ‘Astaghfirullâh’ for yourself and for all the
believers, from your heart. Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] is forgiving & generous.
On the Day of Judgement, when you will see your book, you will find the record
of your sins in it & you will feel regret. But, Subhâna’Allâh, you will find
between these sins, Astaghfirullâh, Astaghfirullâh, Astaghfirullâh. Bi-idhnillâh,
Allâh, the Karîm will cancel those sins that have istighfâr beside them, around
them, after them.
Luqmân taught his sons to make istighfâr. He said: “Oh my sons, istighfirullâha
qâidun, istighfirullâh qâimum, istghfirullâha râqibun [make istighfâr when you
are standing, sitting, reclining]. For the mercy of Allâh is descending.”
Indeed, rahamât are falling down like rain. So try to be under those rahamât.
Look at it this way – there are seasons of mercy during which Allâh sends down
abundant mercy [like during Ramadân, like the days of Dhul-Hijjah, etc.]. Allâh
is always generous because that is one of His [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] Attributes,
but He says that He gives more during certain periods. Allâh is Rahîm always,
but He says He has more mercy during a certain period. These days are like those
special-rate promotions or sale season. Therefore, don’t leave or ignore this
sale. Go and ask for more. Keep saying ‘astaghfirullâh’, ‘astaghfirullâh’,
astaghfirullâh’, keep insisting on it till Allâh forgives you. Start from the
beginning of Dhul-Hijjah.
“…nor will He punish them while they seek (Allâh’s) forgiveness.” [Al-Anfâl
We are informed that there is no punishment from Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ a] on
the yastaghfirûn . Allâh relieves all problems with istighfâr. Those who are
persistent in istighfâr in their lives, disasters and calamities will be
repelled from them. Mercy is like a cloud on the head of the mustaghfirîn . How
do we know this?
“Why seek you not the forgiveness of Allâh, that you may receive mercy?” [An-Naml
Allâh is telling us to make istighfâr to gain His mercy. Let your istighfâr
ascend to Him and His mercy will descend upon you.
Fast as much as you can during these blessed days. If you can fast all of these
days, then do so. Even in any regular day, Allâh has promised a great reward for
the one who fasts: “Whoever fasts one day for the sake of Allâh, Allâh will keep
his face seventy years distance away from the Fire because of it.”  So what
about these special days for which it is said: “There is no deed more precious
in the sight of Allâh, or greater in reward, than a good deed done during the
ten days of Dhul-Hijjah.” Allâh loves the good deeds in these days. Allâh loves
siyâm. Put these two beloved things together. You are the doer of the things
Allâh loves. He [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] will Love you, bi-idhnillâh.
Any ‘ibâdah, be it salâh, dhikr, Qur’ân, that is done during some periods of
time and with them, are also periods of non action. Can you do any of them from
Fajr till Maghrib continuously? Which ‘ibâdah will you be able to do non-stop?
Siyâm! From Fajr till Maghrib during the best days, you will be able to be in a
continuous state of worship. So please my sisters [& brothers], grab this chance
eagerly. Also don’t forget you have if Allâh wills, at least one du’â guaranteed
with each siyâm – at the time of breaking the fast. So that is nine opportune
moments during this period.
Regarding fasting on the day of ‘Arâfah, the Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa
sallam] said: “Fasting the day of ‘Arafâh, I hope, will expiate the sins of the
year before it and the year to come…”  So how does this happen? Does this
mean that we can fast on that day and for the rest of the year we can do
whatever we want of bad deeds? No! It implies that Allâh [subhâna wa ta’âlâ]
will help us to abstain from sins. And, if you commit a sin by mistake, He [subhâna
wa ta’âlâ] will cancel it due to His promise.
Spending for the sake of Allâh!
Only Allâh knows how many trials & calamities have been pushed away from us, our
family and loved ones as a result of our sadaqâh. Allâh knows how many times
relief and ease has come to us due to the sadaqâh we gave. Therefore, give in
the way of Allâh, as much as you can. Don’t leave any raised hands return empty.
Show Allâh that you love Him by spending from that which you love. Show Allâh [subhâna
wa ta’âlâ] that all these things mean nothing besides gaining His ridha .
Don’t look and remind yourself of what you have already spent in the past. If
Allâh wills, He [subhâna wa ta’âlâ] has accepted and written it for you. Now,
think of how you can outdo that sadaqâh during these days. Spend from what you
love and Allâh will love you.
Preserve the Ties of Kinship:
Preserve the ties of kinship for: “No one who severs the ties of kinship will
enter Paradise.”  If it is difficult for you to call or meet every relative,
then send them a message. But write with your heart and with the right
intention. There is a man who connects with all of his near and far relatives.
It is almost like a mission for him for the sake of Allâh. He [subhâna wa ta’âlâ]
loves this ‘ibâdah. Even those who are far away, he calls and connects them to
the rest of the family and brings them all together. And subhâna’Allaah, Allâh
has given him a lot of wealth and with such ease and has made his life easy, and
as a result of his deeds. The Prophet [sall-Allâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam] promised
this reward for the one who connects and maintains kinship: “Whoever would like
his rizq to be increased and his life to be extended, should uphold the ties of
These were just a few of the wonderful things we can do during the forthcoming
best days of Dhul-Hijjah. Therefore, if we want Allâh’s help with these deeds
and our schedule for them, we need to do a lot of tawbah. The Salaf as-Sâlih
used to say that they would feel prevented from qiyâm al-layl due to their sins.
They knew that when they want to do ‘ibâdah and they are unable to do it, it is
due sins. So, what do we need to do? A lot of istighfâr with tawbah, real Tawbah!
Ask Allâh for help.
Make the du’â:
“O Allâh, help me to remember You, to give You thanks, and to perform Your
worship in the best manner.” 
 Ibn ‘Abbâs, Ibn az-Zubayr, Mujâhid and others of the earlier and later
generations said that this refers to the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah. Ibn
Kathîr said: “This is the correct opinion.” [Tafsîr ibn Kathîr, 8/413]
 Al-Bukhârî, 2/457
 Ahmad, 7/224 – Ahmad Shâkir stated that it is sahîh
 The verses [Al-Fajr 89:1-2] and various hadîth indicate that these 10 days
are better than all the other days of the year, with no exceptions, not even the
last ten days of Ramadân. But the last ten nights of Ramadân are better, because
they include Layl al-Qadr [“the Night of Power”], which is better than a
thousand months. Thus the various reports may be reconciled. [See: Tafsîr ibn
 Shaykh Muhammad bin Sâlih al-‘Uthaymîn
 Muslim, 482
 Muslim, 1238
 At-Tirmidhî, 428 – classed as sahîh by al-Albânî in Sahîh al-Nasâ’î
 At-Tirmidhî, 395 – classed as hasan by al-Albânî in Sahîh al-Jâmi 3493
 Al-Bukhârî & Muslim
 Al-Bukhârî, 1094 and Muslim, 758
 Ahmad, 7/224
 Tahlîl [“Lâ ilâha ill-Allâh”], Tahmîd [“Alhamdulillâh”] and Takbîr ["Allâhu
Akbâr"]. See: Ahmad, 7/224
 Abû Dâwûd, 2041 – classed as hasan by al-Albânî
 Classed as hasan by al Albânî
 Muslim, 2/808
 Muslim, 1976
 Sahîh Muslim
 Al-Bukhârî, 5986 and Muslim, 2557
 Sahîh Abû Dâwûd, 1/284
Credits to Sister Noor for this compiling this naseeha.
All Praise Belongs to Allah The Rabb Al'Aalameen.
Wassalaamu 'Alaikum waRahmathullahi waBarakaathuhu.
Abu Affan, written on the 30th Dhu Al-Qa'dah Shawwal 1430AH