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Coping with the Sexual Demands of the Husband
Question asked by Anonymous.
Posted on: Friday, July 16, 2004 - Hits: 7085

I am married since 18 months. I face a minor problem. My husband wants to have sex at night and I am not very willing because I am scared i will lose the fajr prayer as I cant have ghusl in the early morning. Can you give me a solution?

We understand that to have sex is one of the basic rights of each spouse. Night is the most appropriate time for the act. Therefore, I would suggest that you should try your best to adapt yourself according to the wishes of your husband. This I do not say because the husband is entitled to force you in accepting everything he feels comfortable with but because his demand is so very natural. Persistent denial of his request may create in your husband the feeling of being ignored and may lead you both to a difficult situation.

Your concern for the Fajr prayer is very commendable indeed. As for your fear of losing it because of the difficulty you face in bathing early in the morning you can resolve that by for example taking the bath right after you have had sex or you can try to develop the habit of rising a little early and taking the bath.

Tariq Mahmood Hashmi
Research Assistant, Studying Islam

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